Men, describe a good woman to you. Help a woman to be better in your own POV?

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Men, describe a good woman to you. Help a woman to be better in your own POV.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

A good women must be smart in every manner. Must be wise must have a beautiful heart kind not be afraid to stick up for urself or others who are afraid to, but do it smart has to be happy and smile. Think 10 steps ahead at all times dont get cought up in drama. If a man hurts you in any way know that your stronger then what you think.. if you give in once. That's all it takes for him to do it again step out of the picture and let him prove it with his actions. Not his words. Stay calm always think before you speak once your tone gets loud every thing changes. Because now he is guiding or controlling the moment. Remember you and only you are in control of you you are the boss of you set your boundaries makes them be respected. You dont need to be loud to be heard the more quiet you are the more focused in real you are. When a guy dies something that hurts you. Then he wasn't thinking about you. Only him self
Love like its the one and only thing in life. When he does thevsame but if he can't give you that there is a reason And that mean take a time out he needs to figure it out fast dont allow him a pass. If he can't do it then walk away our life is short every day until happy will become weeks and months. Learn quickly you're not here to be unhappy.
You're here to become the best. You can become and the person WI. Th you, if they cannot become that same person? Sorry but you need to walk away. You cannot change anybody and nobody can change you.
We all have to do it within.

TrimmedTip · Accepted Answer

A good woman (in my POV): confident, kind, honest, independent, and emotionally intelligent. She knows her worth, communicates clearly, and supports without losing herself.

To “be better”: stay true to you, keep growing, and don’t dim your light for anyone. The right guy will value realness over perfection. 💬❤️👑

Anonymous · Answer

In terms of her character/personality, I want someone that is selfless (at least for me) - not so that she starts giving me stuff, but I've noticed that I am actually happy to give much to selfless people, even if they don't ask for it. I can't stand these modern entitled women that EXPECT you to be chivalrous or EXPECT you to die for them as if your life is disposable - if they like chivalry but don't expect it, that is much better; and if they want to be protected but don't expect it, that is unbeatable. In both of these situations, I will happily do my duty as a husband without any regrets.

Her being selfless will naturally lead to her considering what I want, which includes her staying/getting in shape so that I can enjoy sex etc.

I certainly don't EXPECT a woman like this, but if I do get one, that will be a very serious blessing. Just to reiterate, I will not just be happy to fulfill my duty as a husband, I will actively want to maximize my wife's happiness in this case.

In terms of looks, I hate nail polish. I don't see why you would make your nails stand out more as if it is appealing that humans have nails. I prefer a natural face, which includes the bumps and stuff (acne doesn't do anything to put me off in the majority of cases). I simply want a plain woman that has abs. Breasts and butts are neutral - they are off-putting when they become large.

TDDMS · Answer

Step 1 - Have a good foundation. No, I don't mean the makeup. A woman's foundation is: a) keep your body in great shape. That includes the only hair on your body is head, eyebrows, and eyelashes. No man wants to plant his face into something that could be used as a substitute for a Brillo pad. If you put on 10 lbs around the holidays, plan on losing 20 lbs starting on January 2. This maxim also includes the fact that if your mommy and daddy didn't give you enough hugs when you were little girl, get that taken care of, us men aren't your therapist. b) Don't be a cunt - this is self explanatory, and c) have two hobbies.

Step 2 - Be submissive. If your relationship knowledge came from social media, your friends, university, television, "Sex in the City," or your broken family, next time you are sitting on the pot, flush all that "knowledge" down the drain.

Step 3 - Don't act like a man. No man cares how much you make. Your job title. The company you work for. The university you graduated from. Truth be told, you girls don't have careers and men don't want to hear about your "career."

This list should be good enough for you to get started with.

Anonymous · Answer

A woman that can be present… not aloof or stuck up, thinking about how she can get out of a situation. She’s here, she’s engaged, she’s present. You can have a conversation with her, you don’t have to be your “performative” self around her, she’s just someone you can easily connect with and have a good chat.

The “I’m too good for this situation” mentality is an immediate red-flag and sign of immaturity. A lot of these girls nowadays think they belong on a yacht with high-roller types and it’s not even remotely realistic. The dating apps have melted their brains because a pro athlete might have chatted them up ONE time because they had the perfect angle photo and it just so happened to get them a response…

This day and age, in this economy, the old days of a man fully supporting you are done. You have to be willing to team up with someone and build your life together. Not wait at the finish line fishing for dudes that are in the top 1 of 1%. There is no princess treatment. And even if there was, why would a guy even want to treat you that way when you’re snobby and too good for everything?

I get it, there’s unwanted attention, but there are a ton of ways to not attract attention to yourself, and these days women seem to need CONSTANT attention. It’s a problem, honestly.

dunow33 · Answer

She needs to be smart, driven in her career and her fun life... and I cannot emphasize this enough... and doesn't complain about men being bad at all. Doesn't complain that they're "stupid," or cheaters, or abusive. I have met 3, only 3 women in my life, who had interesting, "different" things to say about men. One, in fall of 2012, had a string of 5 consecutive boyfriends, who "were nice men who never mistreated her or cheated on her at all." One in 2007 who never went near jerks, and pretty much said the same thing as the first one, she was never cheated on, and she hated the show "Sex and the City." She said that all those women do is "try out terrible men, get terrible results, and then piss and moan about it..." She also said that any woman who complains about how "terrible" men are... aren't worth listening to... it is insulting to good men for a woman to "try out" a jerk/bad boy for any reason.

And I loved reading this... A woman that can be present… not aloof or stuck up, thinking about how she can get out of a situation. She’s here, she’s engaged, she’s present. You can have a conversation with her, you don’t have to be your “performative” self around her, she’s just someone you can easily connect with and have a good chat.

And she might just be willing to do more than the average lazy woman in the dating scene... help arrange things, and even possibly "offer" to help with the finances of it. Women who expect men to arrange the entire date and do the entire financial part aren't doing the whole "equality" thing.

Clear_Skies10 · Answer

At 45 I'm just interested in meeting a woman who's experienced in life and understands how messed up the current world is in regards to relationships and marriage. I need her to be genuine, independent, loyal, loving, affectionate, but not trying to make me get married again or have more kids. She isn't trying to use me, she legitimately just wants to spend time together and be in love. She wants us to choose to be together naturally, rather than having a legally binding obligation to each other that over-complicates our relationship.

HighValue · Answer

No promiscuous past, no past drug use and not much alcohol use, no tattoos, no nose piercings or unnaturally colored hair, never falsely accuse men, never cheated in her lifetime, no kids from past relationships, no contact with any exes, no revealing/provocative pictures online, doesn't hang out one on one with opposite gender "friends," she is fair to the man and contributes close to the same (if less financially, then she makes up for it by doing a larger proportion around the home), and she initiates affection and intimacy sometimes too instead of always expecting the man to.

Finchie40 · Answer

A girl that is loyal and faithful and treats us the same way she wants to be treated in return , a girl that isn’t selfish that makes us her top priority. A girl that doesn’t withhold intimacy and affection like it has to be earned , Most females’ don’t understand that intimacy and affection is important to most of us men., it’s how most of us feel closer to her , if she constantly denies intimacy and affection then more
Than likely he will feel unloved And unwanted by her and will moreThan likely leave her for someone else.

tzdc21 · Answer

A good woman looks to help elevate her man to new heights. A woman with integrity and genuine kindness, and unwaivering loyalty and dedication, as long as he is doing the same to her. And a woman who is compliant and negotiable, and not demanding or stubborn.

Anonymous · Answer

She has to be the type of woman who would make me willing to overlook all the risks men have to assume today to get married. That means she is kind, compassionate, unselfish, nurturing, good sense of humor, loyal, loves kids and wants to start a family, prioritizes family above her career and ambitions, is healthy, active and likes the outdoors, is somewhat submissive (not too much), embraces her femininity, respects men and values the inherent differences between the sexes, and is sexually hungry, adventurous and open minded.

RavVid · Answer

I've settled on genuinely nice because

* She'll be loving & nice to you and want to please

* be family oriented regard you as part of that

* be collaborative and understand if work forces you to disappoint her

* Not be disputatious and demanding

* appreciative of what you do for her.

* would never cheat

That is about as good as it can get.

Anonymous · Answer

She's loyal; we can count on her to be a good mother and a good wife. Every guy is different, though. Some men or guys want a trophy wife, while others don't. I can't respect male partners who pimp their wives or girlfriends online to make money (ie, OnlyFans). If she's loyal, down to earth, trusting, caring and I like her mind, body and soul its fine. I'm not super picky. I don't use the phrase "feeling a vibe" how girls and women use that so freely.

Miristheiss · Answer

Virtuous, honest, loyal, sweet, feminine, no tattoos and piercings, family oriented and not drawn clubbing, social media and attention.

Iron_Man · Answer

There’s no loyalty nowadays it’s every man and woman for themselves. Things have totally changed. I’m looking for a partner. That’s a great companion that believes in team work that wants to be a team player. Where are these women

aquamint · Answer

The fact that 4 dudes mentioned sex… some woman don’t wanna be fucked every 3 hours that you can’t keep your dick under control

OlderAndWiser · Answer

For me, a good woman is kind, gentle, feminine, nurturing, and affectionate.

AviatorTom · Answer

It's simple. A good woman is one who doesn't always put herself first, above others. It's called caring.

TheKillerJason · Answer

my top 5:
She’s got that grip that looks like you’re pulling out her guts when you pulling out

She gets super wet: clear and creamy depending on the day

she shaves her pussy

she moans cuz she loves the dick

she's not poor or crazy and likes to travel

i_Jedi · Answer

A good woman, to me, is someone who’s caring, supportive, and knows how to have fun. Yeah, it’s awesome if she cooks good food and takes care of me and intimacy matters too haha lol.

SolitarySolace · Answer

A good women would be one who rejects everything taught by feminism. Who rejects marriage in general knowing it only makes relationships transactional and forces men into obligatory servitude. And doesn’t seek respect without having to earn it first.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Fears God. Smart. Submits to me. Honest. Trustworthy. Loyal. Doesn't cause me trouble.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Intelligent, kind, fun, empathetic, adventurous, curious, funny, loving, thoughtful, generous

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

It starts and ends with respect. Everything else falls into place if you have that.

Anonymous · Answer

I did that before in a sexuality class I took in college, because it was easy. Our TA anonymously read our answers. When mine was read, all the girls verbally gushed about it. The only thing I left out was curly hair.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Don't listen to middle-aged blue anons who are calling you middle-aged. Dumbassery at its worst.

Anonymous · Answer

One who isn't abusive verbally mentally emotionally and physically one who doesn't cheat one who doesn't do drugs one who doesn't have erratic wild mood swings (4 an hour) to (1 mood one day 1 mood completely different the next)

siklite · Answer

Honest, loyal, smiles, can be patient, kind, interested in what I have to say and knowing me, shares my interests, calm, looks healthy, independent, gentle, not afraid to be uniquely her

beaves11 · Answer

Empathetic, caring, cares about staying in shape and having high standards for themselves

Shihab_91 · Answer

For me i want to provide her with what i can and try make her happy , all i want is a woman who i can come back after long day and i can tell her about everything be vulnerable without judgment

qwerty2469 · Answer

Live to reduce your mans stress. Because he lives in stress to provide for you, him and your family. Thats it. You do that and you will stay happy and married until you die.

Anonymous · Answer

No. You don't want to know how to be a better woman. You want to know how to PRETEND to be what a guy wants you to be better, Middle age anonymous pink.

Anonymous · Answer

I like dominant, sporty, tomboyish kind of girl, who is self-confident, assertive, and likes to take initiative. Loyalty is also very important in a girl.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Read my takes about the housewife role and what a real family and marriage means...

msc545 · Answer

One who is not constantly lying, manipulating, and causing trouble.

Deserter3 · Answer

Just be nice, have sex with him, be there for eachother, enjoy eachother's company

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Fidelity and consistent with me…

serious · Answer

Yes I have my definition of what a good woman is.

CarolinaCutie5 · Answer

You're 30-35 asking this question? Lol lost

Dongie · Answer

POV? Personal own video?

Sal_Monella · Answer

That would take a short essay,

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

Affordable. That's not full ov' crap.

WhiteThought · Answer

A feminine woman

occulus · Answer

Lots of ways

Ally08 · Answer

Available for hk

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