True or False? Women get bored with monogamy faster than men do?

[Greek_goddess_Iris]

'Men think she's not interested in sex, and what they should probably replace it with, is that she is not interested in the sex she is going to have. In order to want sex it needs to be interesting. It should be sex that is worth wanting. For women to remain interested, it needs to be interesting.

It's not about more sex. You can have more sex... and not feel much. It's about making it more alive and vibrant. "

I'm not even a professional sexologists and I've been saying this to men when I give advice on their relationships. 'she's bored with your m. f. ass, you need to make it interesting'. I heard what I wrote, in italics above, on a podcast. Thank you Esther Perel!

Ladies.. what do you think about this statement? I agree with her. Do you?

[Nikki1989]

This is a common stereotype, but it isn't supported by any facts or research.

However, the usual bitter incels and trolls on here will, of course, post their usual hilarious baloney.

[Anonymous]

Considering women initiate 80% of divorces, it's obviously true.

[Ironco]

These responses to this question are going to be brutal.

[Greek_goddess_Iris]

It's ok. I knew this was coming. But this is what this site is for, to ask and debate. To discuss and figure out if your viewpoint is right or wrong. Some people just get mad too quickly instead of speaking nicely.

[jahaims]

You have the perspective of a broken slut

[Greek_goddess_Iris]

All you are doing here is trying to insult me, which is not easy to do with me. I was married to a narcissist for years. I have a very high tolerance for it. I recognize an insult, but it doesn't effect me. I literally laughed reading this, took a sip of my coffee, forwarded it to my friend, she responded "ha ha ha weak, he probably got dumped and is mad about it now he goes in attack mode" and now I'm responding to you. Even if I were to be a broken slut, that doesn't mean my perspective is wrong... Nobody want to hear they are boring in bed. Ouch. But when things went wrong.. what did You do to try and fix it? See it as constructive criticism. Take that negative feedback and learn from it, and your next relationship might go better. To circle back, like I said, "doesn't mean my perspective is wrong". So Why don't you rather tell me why you think my perspective is wrong. If this is something that happened to you, what do You think went wrong and could have been done differently? Maybe you are in that relationship right now. What do you think should be done other than saying she must open her legs. Or "you wanna do it" or "you are my wife and you Will have sex with me". What do you think should be done to fix a relationship where the woman is not interested anymore? Remember, bucks need to fight for their female they want to mate with. Lionesses with pick the most dominant male who impresses her, penguin chooses their mate also based on how he preforms. If she chooses him and he offers her that rock, they mate for life. Even the female bird won't go for a male that is boring. He needs to be vibrant in color if he wants to mate with her. So this isn't just based off psychology, or research. This is how we were created.

[Panthero80]

She sounds like a skank.

[Paige90]

Mostly false

[Anonymous]

False