Why a girl I have sex sometimes say to everyone in night out I am her boyfriend?

[badg96]

I met this girl a month ago on Tinder and have already had sex with her three times. Honestly, I'm not very attracted to her, but I have a high libido and wanted to have sex. She herself said she didn't want a serious relationship. Yesterday I went out with her at night to a bar and she told a lot of guys and girls that I was her boyfriend. Why did she do that?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Women do that kind of stuff. They want what they really want and will go along with shit that is contrary to what they really want and then expect to get what they really want. Example...

I was in a bar and this Filipina chick was agreeing with the concept of sex friends, so I pitched a offer to come over and fuck. I clearly explained to her that I currently have a Japanese fiance, another long term Japanese girlfriend, and another Filipina side chick.

She came over and we started fucking only for her to break down and start crying... during said fucking. Obviously I can bust a nut to a crying chick so I stop and listen to her reasons. She's got a husband, is cheating, has kids, and is in Japan to make money for them back home. In my mind, I'm like, "Great, bitch wants money, and she suckered me into sleeping with her in order to get some." I re-explain the concept of casual sex and why she agreed to come over to my apartment (glad I didn't take her to my main condo), and I thought she was here because she wanted to fuck. She goes back into that mode and we fuck in the shower. She leaves early, so I pass the fuck out and plan on sleeping all day.

I wake up and this bitch just walks up into my place, despite making it clear before she can't do that because of all my other bitches. She just gets naked and crawls in bed with me. I'm like "WTF?" and tell her to get the fuck out. Made it clear we'll talk later and that's that.

So that night I walk into the bar to a bunch of pissed off bar girls (chick was a bar girl if you haven't guessed already), and they start giving me shit. The story she told them is that we were boyfriend and girlfriend and I was just being a dick. Obviously they were all like "WTF?" as well after I told them everything I just said here just now. I decided to just ghosted her because that is way more drama than I ever wanted for some beat up and blown out clam. She tried to turn other bar bitches against me even... WTF?

So if you skipped my story, the moral of the story is they'll agree to one thing, even though they're totally after another thing. It's why current statistics show more women saying they're in relationships with only like 30% of the men saying they are... because the women are all fucking the same guys and they think it's a relationship just because they're getting fucked. Call it de lu lu or whatever, but bitches do that shit.

Me, I'm just trying to fuck them.

[avery58]

To keep up appearances I guess. She probably doesn't want people to know she's having sex with no strings attached.

[badg96]

But why she not say we are friends? i say to some people before she do this we are friends

[avery58]

If it's at the bar, they probably know there's more going on than a casual friendship. If it's anywhere else, then yeah it would be weird for her to say you're her boyfriend instead of a friend.

[HollyK21]

It’s just easier, she doesn’t wanna have to explain the nature of her relationship with you to everyone who asks.

[badg96]

But why she not say we are friends? i say to some people before she do this we are friends

[HollyK21]

She may not see you as just a simple friend, I mean you guys are hooking up, having nights out together, it sounds like the start of something more. I get that she said she didn’t want a serious relationship but feelings can change, and hers may have.

[Anonymous]

Either:

She has started seeing you as her boyfriend.

She doesn’t want people to know the truth, so she just says you’re her boyfriend so people won’t know it’s casual sex.

She wants people to believe she has a boyfriend. Maybe for status or something.

[MasterKS]

Good points.

[Anonymous]

You seem like a joy to be around

[badg96]

why you say this?

[Opinion Owner]

Sleeping with a woman you aren’t even attracted to