I consider myself a manly man, but several girls have told me that I am feminine. Is this to hurt my ego, or am I misjudging myself?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Why do you even care what they think, you know what kind of person you are.

[Amy2004]

Maybe you have good skin.

[Asker]

If that's the case, then I suppose it would be a compliment.

[Amy2004]

Yes!

[ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅɪsʟᴀᴍɪᴡᴏʀsʜɪᴘ]

Feminine, gentle, soft—these are said about women.

[Asker]

These girls didn't say it to be mean, but they clearly told me that I wasn't manly. And that didn't match the image I had of myself.

[ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅɪsʟᴀᴍɪᴡᴏʀsʜɪᴘ]

Are you a boy or a girl?

[Asker]

Boy...

[ᴍᴀʀʀɪᴇᴅɪsʟᴀᴍɪᴡᴏʀsʜɪᴘ]

Very bad, they are the type who love thugs and killers.

[Asker]

Maybe

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Is that your mom?

[Asker]

No...

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Is that you?