Would your attraction for a guy fade if someone said they thought he was gay?

[Anonymous]

She said “ initially I thought he was gay but the more I got to know him I don’t think so”….

my aunt said he looks gay…

[Finchie40]

If he doesn’t come off gay to you , that’s all that matters , fuck what other people think or say about him , Most people in general are judgmental assholes , that just assume they know things when clearly they don’t know shit , unless they have solid proof that he is , then that’s a different story. So your attraction to him shouldn’t fade because of what other people are saying whatsoever, when you allow others’ to influence you in your relationship with someone’, you are betraying your partner and relationship period. Your partner should be your number 1 priority the same way he should be doing for you. How would you feel if the tables were turned and people were telling him you might be gay? And now all of a sudden he loses attraction to you because of it? So all I am saying is if you want a happy long lasting relationship with someone , you are best not to listen to anyone else whatsoever, unless they have solid proof , otherwise it means absolutely nothing , your boyfriend will be devastated if he found out the truth that you are losing attraction to him because of you listening to judgmental assholes. When a girlfriend does that to me , I tell her to go be with them instead , if you are going to prioritize them over us period. Love only grows between 2 people that choose each other and make each other your top priority, Fuck what anyone else says about your relationship period. Never allow yourself to be influenced by someone that really doesn’t know shit about your relationship with him. Always put yourself in your partners’ shoes and think how you would feel if the tables were turned. Hope this helps you with your relationship

[Asker]

He’s not a boyfriend just someone I’m attracted to

[Anonymous]

No. I wouldn’t believe them unless I thought that for myself.

[Asker]

What if you did initially think it

[Opinion Owner]

Bi or gay?

[Asker]

I thought he was Gay

[Opinion Owner]

I might lose interest but I would have to be 100% sure he was gay. Like I saw him kissing a guy.

[Asker]

Oh no… this guy is heavily into sports

[Opinion Owner]

Why did you think he was gay?

[Asker]

His voice lol it’s still deep but maybe it’s more so nerdy… and my aunt felt that he was because of how he dressed… no scarfs or anything but skinny jeans but he’s a very skinny guy

[Opinion Owner]

He’s not. Are you that girl with the coworker who’s a sports announcer and doesn’t seem attracted to you?

[Asker]

Yep but I decided to just avoid him

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. Whatever makes you happy. But I’m pretty sure he’s not gay.

[Asker]

I did avoid him today and he matched my energy lol we didn’t really talk

[Opinion Owner]

Ok. Does another coworker like him?

[Asker]

Yes I think so

[Opinion Owner]

Good luck. Do what makes you comfortable.

[Asker]

What do you think?

[Opinion Owner]

I think you should be friendly to him and see where it goes. Fuck your coworker. You don’t owe her anything.

Gtg. Night!

[Asker]

Oof 😅 she doesn’t know I’m attracted to him… but I’m older than them both so it’s okay

[Opinion Owner]

Cool. Do whatever you think is best. I don’t want to pressure you.

Night!

[Anonymous]

Try to test him instead of relying on just gossips to determine whether he is gay or not.