She said I'm very important to her and she adores me. Do you think she's falling in love with me?

[Anonymous]

She has been sending me messages with images containing phrases like "you make me happy," "dream of me," "I'm thankful to have you in my life," "you make my day," "I always think of you," "you make me feel amazing," and things like that but most of the time doesn't say anything as affectionate in the actual messages. She explained yesterday that it's very hard for her to be open with her emotions because of her hard life, but that it's "not as bad" with me, which she likes, and I've helped her express them a lot. That made me wonder if she was using the images to express things she was too shy to write. She does usually tell me I'm amazing, the sweetest, the best, handsome, and wonderful in messages. However she shocked me yesterday when she sent "I adore you." She also said "you're very important to me" at the end of our last phone call. That was a few days ago and she hasn't called since, furthering my wonder that maybe she's too shy or scared about what she may say. So now I've really been wondering if she's in love or falling in love with me. I really do hope so, she's the most amazing person!

Yes!

No.

Perhaps, but not certain.

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8 mo

I forgot to mention another lovely thing she said yesterday was that I'm great and "everyone needs someone like you in their life. I know mine is much brighter now."

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8 mo

Sorry I forgot and left things out. Important detail: we are close friends, not dating, though one of the images recently said "good morning, my darling" and another a few days ago called me her "person." Sometimes when I say something very affectionate or caring, she will skip over responding to it or message me less, which also makes sense with her explanation about finding it hard to express her emotions.

[_Maya_]

Just because someone displays emotion to another person does not mean they are in love with them. I can tell you are desperate to want to believe that by your post. Does it mean 100% she is not? No. Anyone of those phrases you list i could easily say to my family... sister or friends and not mean that I'm in love with them. While it definitely sounds flirty it doesn't necessarily mean that she is doing that. Perhaps she is just an over emotional person that likes to share her feelings. I doubt that you are going to listen to what I said given that through tone of this post. I think you only want to hear one thing and that she is in love with you. I don't think that is the case.

[Asker]

Well, actually I asked because I wanted real opinions. So thank you for your insight! :)

[dwreborn]

Are you guys just really good friends? I will say some childhood issues can come up later on in life and surprise the hell out of you make sure if this gets serious she addresses them issues if she holds them in they may ruin your relationship or marriage later on in life trust me I know from experience going through it now and it's a lot of issues with her parents that have ruined our marriage

[dwreborn]

Ya that's a tough one it might just be a friendship but if you want to be more then friends then do it if you feel like you want to be a couple then ask her it could complicate things but if you want more then go for it

[BanBan105]

You are never able to discern the real feelings of any women toward you at anytime. She would indicate her fidelity and affection with you just by a time not immediately. Fast happenings are always deceptive.

[Anonymous]

Perhaps, but it's probably not certain.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Ask her out

[In_Trance]

Not a chance