Should women protect other girls from sex predators?

[sultry_ayumi]

This guy Patrick in my office is a sex predator. He identifies young girls and tells them that he is divorced and looking for a relationship. He even arranges to take these girls on business trips where they are expected to sleep with him. One such victim Victoria managed to locate Patrick's wife Wendy and approached her with proof of Patrick's conduct. Instead Wendy accused Victoria of being a slut that sleeps around with married men. Victoria is heartbroken. What do folks here say? Why is Wendy condoning the way Patrick is operating?

[BriamG22]

Victoria's intentions were great, she wanted to do right by not only herself but another woman whom was being betrayed and lied to. The issue is that she tried to deal with it in a manner that was probably far too personal when it really sbould have been dealt with in a professional setting. One could say she acted too hastily and out of emotions but who can blame her after what she went through.

The thing is she didn't know her wife, the wife could have been anybody, she could have been a murderer keeping bodies in the basement. You ultimately won't know until you meet her and clearly she ended up being a; let's just say, unsavory character 😅😅. The better course of action should have been to make a formal report to HR, disclose all the advances over message that was made. She could possibly even ask the other girls whether they were willing to provide their receipts as further evidence. In this situation, the same outcome is achieved. The dude gets canned, the wife finds out, and Victoria doesn't have to deal with his witch of a wife.

With regards to why she acted that way? Its hard to speculate, maybe she was in denial and needed an avenue to vent? Maybe she is fully dependent on his finances. Maybe she wanted to protect his reputation; they are husband and wives after all. Maybe she's trapped in a psychologically abusive relationship and acted that way in fear. I don't think we'll ever know unless someone asks her haha. Regardless though, Victoria did the right thing and her intentions were just. I think its just a matter of taking a moment first to consider all the options available. But she did the right thing! ❤❤

[DryGermanGuy]

All decent persons, men and women, should protect others, men and women, from sleazebags, scammers and violent people. Looks like that wife is as bad as her husband.

[Jennz6]

I’m not gonna to get involved with other people’s sex life

[sultry_ayumi]

This is nothing to get involved with other people's sex life. Victoria was taken advantage of by a sex predator and even Wendy called her a slut. Is this the way a woman should treat another? How many girls has he banged this way? Doesn't Wendy feel for these? What if her daughter is treated this way?

[Jennz6]

@sultry_ayumi
She should know better than to go away for the weekend with him

[sultry_ayumi]

If Victoria thinks Patrick is single, what's wrong? Patrick should not lie to her. With a wife like Wendy, he can get away with anything.

[Jennz6]

@sultry_ayumi
I feel bad for her

[MasterKS]

Its personal life and choice, no one should interfere.

[Anonymous]

As long as they are all consenting adults.