Do men not understand or care what woman go through when having a baby?

[Anonymous]

Like can't sleep, postpartum depression or anything. Don't learn about how to care for the baby or even love it. So sad.

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11 mo

Or they say about their own child "get that thing to shut up".

[Anonymous]

they do care

they just don't buy into the BS that the entire world has been rearranged completely to accommodate the feelings of the mother just because she's stressed

perhaps if they had God in their life, they wouldn't have these issues

[Asker]

This is why men like you should exist.

[Opinion Owner]

thank you

[Anonymous]

If they are educated and caring, they should have some understanding. Obviously, a man won't be entirely be privy to the experience, but he should be sympathetic. If my hypothetical partner was carrying my child, I would like to think I would be as attentive and supportive as possible.

[Anonymous]

Why do some people look only at the bad apples in society and judge every member of that sex by those bad actors?

[NoDecision]

They aren't the ones suffering so what do they care?

[jahaims]

You're projecting your experiences. Just because you have weak men in your life doesn't all guys are like that.

[Anonymous]

For the most part, no they don't.

Him: That's "woman's work", and besides, you were the one who wants a family so deal with your post partum.
Her: Hmmm... ok, so I'll get pregnant again!

Sound familiar?

[Asker]

Not really.

[Opinion Owner]

Then you're not paying attention.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should have found a better man. Stop saying men collectively like we’re all like that. Maybe he’s referring to you when he says get that thing to shut up.

[chenyu]

I have no experience in this, I really don’t know what to do!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I think a decent cares but men can't possibly understand what a woman go through with child birth.

[bunniesrcute]

this is why ill never have kids, men are even worse than the child after having a child.

[LiamJHayden]

Wow, sound like a real winner.

[mysteriousNicholas]

I Sympathize