Why he keeps asking me for friends with benefits if he knows I have no desire for that?

[Anonymous]

Like we already spoke on that topic before yet he still has the guts to ask

[AvaRay]

If u hv already set your boundaries, any repeated push is a choice on his part, not yours..

Respect is shown through listening, not persistence.

Someone who truly values u won’t ask again after u hv said no, period..

[Asker]

Right exactly I mean I hardly ever even take him serious cause he jokes around a lot so I don’t know if he was just kind of joking that day when he asked cause you don’t always mention it. It’s just like randomly one time thing or he will ask, but yeah, he definitely knows me better than this cause he knows that I don’t wanna have sex with anyone until marriage so like it’s like why would you even ask me so I’m assuming he’s joking

[AvaRay]

Exactly..

Context matters, but boundaries don’t..

Whether he’s joking or serious, your stance is clear, u define your limits, not him..

If someone truly respects u, they won’t test or question your choices just for curiosity or amusement..

[Asker]

Right

[QuineJessica]

Never settle for a friendship with benefits, sex is something that only comes with love and feelings. Maybe you should stop communicating with him if he doesn't understand your no.

[Asker]

Right exactly

[QuineJessica]

Always be yourself and don't let yourself be manipulated ❤️

[QuineJessica]

You deserve a guy who will love and respect your principles.

You know, I used to think that losing my virginity and having sex would make me cool. In fact, it all makes no sense without true love.

[Asker]

Exactly

[Asker]

Amen

[QuineJessica]

Are you Catholic too?

[Asker]

I’m religious

[OneViewpoint]

Because he wants friends with benefits and he's gonna keep trying and hope you eventually give in. This ain't rocket science. And he'd probably no genius.

[Asker]

Unless he messing with my mind

[Daddyx69cum]

Cuz boys are stupid

[JDLives]

Because he loved the sex with you and wants it again.

[BarryLiverstone]

Maybe he thinks you will change your mind

[Asker]

I don't know unless he joking

[avery58]

Anyway block him if he insists after you told him you don't want to

[Asker]

@avery58 he works with me so there is mo blocking

[avery58]

Well tell him to stop asking you or you will have to tell HR that he is bothering you. If he keeps insisting after receiving a no, that could lead to coercion if the person feels pressured to accept.

[avery58]

Oh sorry @barryliverston... I don't know how I replied under your comment lol. I was trying to reply to her under my own answer.

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s ok Avery. You were trying to help. It’s kind of you

[avery58]

Cause he's desperate

[Asker]

Maybe

[BarryLiverstone]

She’s right