If a girl text you first is the ball in your court to steer the interaction in whatever way you want to?

[Anonymous]

[Nikki1989]

I don't know because a text to me is a total dead end. I wouldn't even reply. If someone has your number but can only muster a pathetic text, move on.

[slatyb]

That's how texting works. Someone sends a message, and the other person replies.

[Asker]

You can even try to make plans right?

[slatyb]

Plan a $#@$#@!% date and invite her. Don't ask her if she wants to "hang out" or other wishy-washy bullshit. If she's interested, she will either accept or propose a different time. Any other response is a no.

[Abbycado]

A lot depends on what she sent.

[Asker]

Does it? Because if she text me something simple like "hey" or "wyd" there are different things you can do. You can just chat casually, send something flirty or try to make plans

[Abbycado]

That's what I mean. If she says "Hey, what's up?" the conversation is then in your court. If it is something specific, don't try and change the subject.

[Asker]

Yep you're right