If a girl texts you first and y'all are engaging in conversation, more often than not, should you try to pivot to plans?

[Anonymous]

[Nikki1989]

It is not rocket science. Just make a move.

[DishLady]

If she's too eager consider why. If you're just in it for fun but she's thinking there's something serious that can come out of this (or vice versa), then there's some sussing out to do before you make plans.

[i_Jedi]

Yes! If she’s texting first and keeping the convo going, that’s a green light. Like Jared Laurence always says, don’t just stay in texting land, pivot to real-life plans and see if there’s actual connection.

[Asker]

Even if you already have a connection and it's not a new girl?

[Purpleronnie]

If that’s what you want , why not. Doing nothing may mean nothing will happen.


Take your shot ?

[Zionne]

Usually yes, if she’s texting you first and keeping the convo going, that’s a green light to move things forward. Just keep it light: “This is fun, let’s grab a coffee this week.” It shows confidence without being pushy.

[DocT1977]

Yeah, that's how my Fiance and I got together. We found more and more common ground together, and we decided to pursue it.

[Vegasrunner]

Lol. Good question, and you will learn those with experience when a woman reaches out you always conclude by setting a date and time to meet.

[Asker]

What if we already have a connection and it's not a new girl?

[Vegasrunner]

@asker Same thing applies. It's just an opportunity for you to set a date and time.

[MJVillarama]

Yeah, if the convo’s flowing, it’s a good move to suggest plans. Keeps things moving from chat to real life.

[TallMan89]

Nope, because she'll say "UHg, I thought I found someone who just wanted to be friends". Anything you do will be made to make you look like the bad guy.

[AngryCarl2]

If you're waiting for her to make the first move it's going to be a long call!

[Rachel256]

Yup you should if you would like to see her. The less you can chat over text the better, attraction wise, even if she wants to

[qwerty2469]

No. C9nversation amd friendship is so much better then sex and a relationship

[serious]

Yes of course.

[Asker]

Why?

[Twalli]

Not if we just want conversation.