Have you told a man to stop staring at your clevage? How did he react?

[Anonymous]

[Jooying]

Not cleavage but legs and boobs, yes Lol
Usually if I made this kind of statement, he must be at some certain level of friends, so mostly they jokingly reply me like "shoot got caught!" Or something similar.

[Nikki1989]

Nah. I usually make some smartass comment like “you want a closer look.”

That is usually enough to make them walk away.

[Noredcarpet]

No but then again I don't dress in the fashion that makes them pop like that. If and when guys look like that I have always pretended I don't notice or don't care. I have felt uncomfortable at an early age when guys would stare especially older guys that could be your dad, totally creepy, during summer time when you can't exactly dress up in a space suit to try to avoid it. My ex would always look at me from afar but sort of have all of me locked in. This sent a message to others if too interested she's mine and to me too. If and when I happened to look his way he would make eye contact and smile. Looking back I get that this was the grooming part. I felt an ownership, his right to do that when he did not have any. If I went to parties he wasn't he would still have his boys keep an eye on me. Watching me through them or through a friend or friends of mine. I got the hang of it as he would comment later on what he knew, he knew from them too. It was never just my own report. Later the feeling of ownership, of always being watched was getting to me. I do not think it is anyones right to look at you any way they please If it makes you feel uncomfortable. You have the right to say something but there ought to be signals you can give away before it has to come to it that you actually have to say something that they ought to notice.

[JuliaCartorez]

I usually am fine with staring and have even teased and flashed guys before but the one time I did ask someone to stop staring at my breasts was when I was breast feeding my son and I told a man watching to stop. he made a fuss about it and complained about me having it out even though I was feeding my child but my husband was near and made him leave.

[bunnyboo24]

I make sure I never show clevage so this doesn't happen. However if it did I would just pull my shirt up.

[Anonymous]

He would go blind trying to find my cleavage. With an ‘a’

[Anonymous]

My husband. He reacted by motorboating me while jerking off.

[Anonymous]

I jiggle them and asked why they're staring, then I give myself boob compliments
I don't care

[Kelly6]

No

i like it instead

[DishLady]

What's the point? You know they'll stare anyway...

[jazzy34]

Never had that problem.

[ShyAndFun]

Older guys listen young guys get mad