Why would a man awkwardly look away as your eyes meet?

[Anonymous]

We were sitting opposite to each other, listening to a romantic song from 50s and he was taking me a video of me blowing a candle and talk about my thoughts while I was looking around in the air, he had his head leaned in his head and look at me really sweetly, blinking his eyes, then at some point when I stopped looking around and looked at him back and smiled, while he was still staring at my eyes smiling, he looked at the window and changed the topic, about the weather.

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We had a trip and lived together shortly, it was the last night of our trip.

[Finchie40]

Because you probably made him melt and turned him on and he didn’t want you to think he was creepy for doing so , so he turns his head because he is trying to control himself so he changed the topic. Most of us men are very visual when we are with a beautiful girl and we tend to have naughty thoughts about her , because we want to rip her clothes off and have our way with her pretty much but we don’t want her to get the wrong impression that we are coming on too strong to her.

[NicholasRedone]

@lafemmefatale_1 I'm flattered but I can't right now ; it's not that I'm taken - it's that I can't fit a woman into my life romantically right now - even if a part desires to - it's not that you're not hot - spoken from experience 🥹🤤🥹 there's your answer from a true male mind 💖

[NicholasRedone]

@lafemmefatale_1 it's hard to find a Mr Right, eh, aye? Just like finding a Ms/Miss/Mrs Left (I don't mean she's always got a mate or on the side lol) 😜😂

[NicholasRedone]

*already - not always (typo) @lafemmefatale_1 lol

[Nikki1989]

He might struggle with social anxiety in general, making eye contact uncomfortable in any situation. Ask him, what's up!

[dovey234]

I think he just got shy as your eyes met w his and looked away, cute. He might have feelings for you

[Summeroflove]

Ask him if you don’t know him super well maybe he started having feels that are too deep and it made him nervous.

[ProbablyClueless]

Maybe the intimacy of the moment just got more than he was comfortable with.

[Asker]

Why though? Aren’t those moments meant to be intimate?

[ProbablyClueless]

They're supposed to be intimate, but feelings aren't logical things. Sometimes intimate moments uncover more than we're ready for.

[knottyguy]

I would have said it's probably shyness because I'm really shy but since he stared into your eyes there was a connection. I'd probably agree with Finchie40. you got something stirring inside him that he felt he needed to get control of quickly. If you did that to me, I know exactly what would be running through my mind... lol

[Godihateyou]

He could be retarded, autistic or a sociopath. I'm a sociopath. We do this thing where we stare. We learn quick that it puts people off so we learn to stop staring into people's eyes. But then it gets mechanical "ok I looked at their eyes for 11 seconds, look down at their lips, back to their eyes for 4 mississipi then to their forehead, oh shit they are noticing something weird, look away"

[Asker]

lol no, he stared with cute eyes, like smiling and sweetly.

[Godihateyou]

Oh.. then he's gay. Sorry.

[dovey234]

not everyone has to be gay? admiring some1 sweetly doesn't make him gay.

[Godihateyou]

Yes it does.

[RavVid]

Don't know what the sub plot was. You lived together but was the trip as friends not as a couple? Maybe he had lustful thoughts and then thought it was not appropriate in the circumstances.

[Asker]

It was as a couple, but we haven’t told “I love you” to each other yet.

[RavVid]

Maybe he was thinking about it then thought how do I say it and will she scream? It is difficult to get the timing right and you don't to muck it up. Possibly "I'm falling for you" is a good way.

[Asker]

He’s also commitment phobe, hasn’t had a relationship for 10 years. Has been messing around.

[RavVid]

The plot thickens. Yes, he might have had emotional thoughts but decided to step back at that point.

[OneViewpoint]

He wasn't up to the moment. He played a good game until it got real. Then he folded. Expect more of the same;.

[Asker]

He wasn’t up to what?

[OneViewpoint]

The intimacy when his flirting solicited a positive response. He folded instead of moving forward. He had no idea what to do next.

[Asker]

Why didn’t he have an idea what to do next?

[OneViewpoint]

Ask him, not me.

[JustBeingReal727]

He's probably attracted to you and doesn't want to be accused of coming off too strong and have a conversation with your your friends about rather just one on one with you. Based off of my experience that seems to be a pretty common thing females do.

[CuriousTommy]

Lmao he likes you but doesn't want you to think he is creepy. That's it

[Communicationisking]

Possibly he had a squirrel run past... ADHD

[HungTexan]

Some men struggle with intimacy. Give him time.

[Professor-college]

Well that's an easy answer the reason is that most of us feel nervous and afraid when we encounter her eyes since it's uncertain how she would react and sometimes women even get angry and you keep staring at her

[Wayneg89]

He probably didn't wanna creep you out by staring. Or he's shy and doesn't know how to approach you.

[Emmat178]

It can be because he was admiring you at he got embarrassed and looked away.

[kaucky1]

They were already looking and not want you to notice

[masterSir]

doesn't want to be labeled a creep and possible sexual harassment charge.

[NathanDavis]

because he wasn't genuine...

[RandomUser1000]

Probably got a bit shy

[Elliegirl]

Were you on a date?

[chrissykerdock]

he's not ready to get married

[WhitneySnow]

He is so into you!

[glennos89]

He is probably insecure

[Eempriyanka]

He might be a wus..

[Manuelwe]

He see a good looking woman but he could be shy

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause your intimidating to him

[Anonymous]

Maybe he's too shy.

[HotGuy14621]

Was his cock hard?