When will most women realize most naturally thin women actually HATE being thin?

[Anonymous]

Yea it may be the ideal body but curvy and thick are in. Guys actually prefer women with that figure over thin. Those thin girls back in the 90s-2000s were pressured to be or stay thin. Some may not even like being thin. You don’t need to be thin to be beautiful and I will tell you right now, thin isn’t always great. I’ve been a skinny girl all my life and I HATED it. I was bullied, criticized, told to eat and envied women with curves and thicker bodies. I’ve been trying to put in weight for YEARS! Some bigger girls thought I was crazy and ungrateful but I’m not. Not ever thin girl likes being thin. My friend is a bit chubby, but she is very curvy, beautiful and she’s tall. I told her so many women KILL to have her body and I had to fight with her about how attractive and sexy she is. I told her she doesn’t need to lose weight because she looks fine they way she is. She got too skinny and she looks better heavier. She went from 213 (she claimed) to 149. She’s too skinny and she’s 5’9” and a thick pear shape.
When I finally got hips and my body started filling out, I was thrilled! I gained weight and I was so happy. I went from 98lbs to 135. I’m 5’5. I am more confident, I wear more shorts and skirts more often. I used to hide my skinny body with long skirts, pants and cute shirts. I was so embarrassed to wear shorts, a bathing suite and my skinny ass legs! I’m so glad my legs are healthier and thicker now. Women wish to be curvy and have weight in them.

[SereneScribe3]

I'm genuinely puzzled by the purpose of this post.. Sounds more like a statement than a question. It also seems to make a lot of assumptions about thin women, implying they're unhappy with their body or pressured by society to be on a diet (which isn't always true, as some women are naturally slim, due to a fast metabolism)

As long as someone's happy and healthy in their own skin, that's all that matters.. Bodyshaming isn't nice

[Amy_Mi]

Thinness isn’t a guarantee of confidence or happiness, it’s just one aspect of appearance.

Many naturally thin women struggle with body image, societal expectations, or personal dissatisfaction despite how others perceive them.

True understanding comes when people recognize that self worth isn’t dictated by size, but by alignment with their own values, health, and sense of self.

[zagor]

That is BS. Thick and curvy are inventions of the Kardashians and their ilk.

Now no one wants a woman who looks like an Auschwitz inmate, but what is in is a fit, active woman and they tend to be on the slender side. I don't see a lot of big-boob big-ass women on the ski slopes.

[slatyb]

5-5 and 98 pounds is quite underweight. 5-5 and 135 is a perfectly healthy weight, not thick or curvy. Most men are attracted to women who are at a healthy weight, neither underweight or overweight.

[Nikki1989]

I have always thought all women know that already. Nobody wants a bag of bones.

[Asker]

Why do you think skinny women try to gain weight?

[Yoursweetgirl]

I think it depends more on time period and the culture.

My experience has been complete opposite

[Anonymous]

I'm skinny and I like it very much. Those pictures of girls with hippo butts and Goodyear blimp boobs are disgusting.

[seeyounexttuesday]

No I absolutely do not believe that thin women hate being thin. Under any circumstance. You're bullshitting.

[MemeSupreme]

this is a weird post

[DryGermanGuy]

It’s creative writing girl. Her problem is, she can’t keep her body measurements straight across her stories. Multiple personalities fighting for first place, I assume. 🤔

[Danny_dan92]

That’s why body positivity is a thing right?