If you got a girl's phone number and she told you she wants to be close the same day, is that a green light to move things forward?

[Anonymous]

[Alex-Snow]

Of course. Ask her out. Has this happened to you? How well do you know her?

[Asker]

Yes this has happened to me. I know her but I don't know her too well. We are coworkers. We already used to talk on Snapchat but it wasn't romantic

[Alex-Snow]

Keep following her on socials and maybe ask her out for a casual date first like a cup of coffee or a walk. Are both of you single? How old are both of you?

[Asker]

I don't know if she is single. I am 2 years older than her

[Alex-Snow]

If you don't try you will never know! Go for it. It could turn out well which could be fun... sexually as well as a companionship.

[Asker]

I understand I should try but what she said is very vague so why should I try?

[Alex-Snow]

It is vague but one has to be willing to take chances! If you do not try you will never know.

[Asker]

Of course. I guess I expected her to take the chance

[Alex-Snow]

It is possible. But if things work out it would be great for you and way better than jerking off thinking about it like many guys?

[Alex-Snow]

What is the worse thing that can happen... she says NO... well then you know to move on.

[Anonymous]

That is very vague at best.

[Mike_Whocheese_Harry]

Well duh

[Asker]

Why wouldn't that mean she wants to be friends?

[Mike_Whocheese_Harry]

Because she is being upfront with you. A friend wouldn’t care when you met up.

[Asker]

She didn't say anything about meeting up

[Mike_Whocheese_Harry]

What does “she wants to be close” mean, then?

[Asker]

I don't know. She was vague