Do you think it is appropriate to ask for a girls number while she's working - given I might not have another chance?

[clm4st3r]

Hello everyone,

I am infatuated with this girl that works as a cinema attendant at one of the cinema theathers in my town.

I find her very, very beautiful and she seams to have this sweet, joyful demeanour that just has me captivated.

(She only works on the weekends. I've noticed her last year in the summer but I didn't find an opportunity or the ease to chat with her. And about this time last year I stopped seeing her there, which made me think that must have been a summer job.

I was therefore very pleased to see her again back in there this summer.

After some instances in which the place was very crowded, some two weeks ago I found the opportunity - in a moment where the place was quiet - to compliment her. As I was handing her the ticket to rip it I told her 'Before going in I just want to say I found you very, very beautiful and most of all your sweet smile makes me melt a bit everytime I come here and see you'. She smiled - it seems to me in part because she liked it, and in part because she was surprised, maybe when I started the phrase she feared a critique or something, and she was very pleasantly surprised. She didn't say a thing and I started to go in; only to realise - clumsy me - that I hadn't even introduced myself and asked her name. And I got back only to do so. And that was it.

Last weekend I went in there but I didn't see her at the doors. I only saw her later in this intermission thing where they come in with this sweets and beverage trolley for people who'd wanna buy some - and she was with a co-worker; I even went there to have the chance to say hi, but she was handling a cell phone or some other device, looking down, and she didn't see me or she did, but intended to not make eye contact.

Yesterday I went there again. Didn't find the chance to talk to her...

Anyway, I suspect this Sunday might be the last day she works there. I'm thinking of going again and try and ask for her number.

Do you guys think it is a good idea to do it?

[BetaBucks]

That's how I met my wife, so yeah it's appropriate. Just don't be weird about it and if the timing is wrong, you just have to skip. That's the way it is. Giving your number is much safer and easier tho.

[Avicenna]

If you can do it without distracting her from her job, sure

[In_Trance]

She gets hit on by you and everybody else that goes in there. Watch your movie and leave.

[EzraIsShy76028]

I'm just replying here to say that your profile picture is the best profile picture I've seen all day! Like that's such a goofy, funny looking face! Like is she trying to imitate a gopher or a beaver or some shit? Either way, hilarious!

[BetaBucks]

I pulled probably 50 girls who were on the clock, including my wife. It's about not being autistic and knowing the difference between interest and being nice.

[In_Trance]

Spell check should be used regularly

[BetaBucks]

You get your feelings hurt that easily? Weird, bro

[In_Trance]

? Yea ok

[BetaBucks]

Thought so

[In_Trance]

I don't know why you would bother asking this question if you pulled 50 girls. Seems a little retarded to me.

Chances are you haven't pulled shit.

[BetaBucks]

Hahahaha bro your emotions got the better of you. Fucking hilarious. I'll take that as a compliment.

And look who asked the question...

[LiamJHayden]

No. In that situation give her your number and say something like, "No pressure, throw it away if you're not interested."

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s not appropriate generally but if you have seen her multiple times at least learn her first name

[clm4st3r]

I do know her name. I asked her after I complimented her. Only I had forgotten to, initially.

[BarryLiverstone]

Then next time ask if she would like to meet you for coffee after work

[Iron_Man]

That’s fine. Where else are you going to see her to ask for the number?