Girls, Is it alright to approach a woman for her insta while she’s working?

[Anonymous]

If you see a woman you like and they’re working say at a supermarket or in retail setting is it ok to approach her to get her or contact details?

Yes

No

[MzAsh]

Only if you have a regular rapport with her. If you’ve only talked to her once or twice, you should get to know her more before you do that.

[Asker]

I agree. If you’re a super regular customer say for 2-5 months or more and there’s mutual friendliness going on then it’s fine in my opinion but only if there’s a lull in the conversation so to speak and not in front of her colleagues. Has to be done with the utmost respect

[antelope51]

Um... if I don't know them, that's just weird. I actually wound up FB friending half the staff at Denny's, but that was because I was there so often and there was such a "Cheers/everybody knows your name" vibe that we were all friends of a sort, so it wasn't so weird.

[Asker]

I agree. If there’s some smiling or kind of connection beforehand then it’s the next step but if you don’t know them and randomly approach it can be weird. It has to be done gradually

[Asker]

Plus it’s disrespectful to her because she is working and on company time and she is kind of trapped and can’t tell you to F off or something. If it is in a club then it’s of course fine because it’s the context for the setting

[smashleyy]

if you’re over 30 I think it would look better if your asked for her actual number

[Asker]

I think a number is for when you actually know the person really well. If it’s on Insta or another social media platform then if it doesn’t work out you can block or she can block with minimal or no after affects. A number is harder to block in my opinion