There is this girl from my work that I've worked with for a few years, we have always been flirty with each other. I think she like's me I just think she's afraid to get involved with someone from work. Maybe she's worried I'd just try to nail her then tell everyone from work about it or something. I would hope based on how we've interacted she would know I'm a good guy that wouldn't do that. Even a few people from work told me how they saw her blushing around me & all that. I always jokingly but half seriously talk about taking her out & how she's a babe. She laughs & flirts right back but doesn't make it totally obvious she would go out with me. If I was to date her we would have to keep it on the DL at work. It would be too annoying having everyone know & joke around all the time. I get nervous SOMETIMES talking to her which I never get nervous around girls. I don't think I've liked a girl like this in awhile. I tried in the past to forget about her but my feelings for her never went away. I feel like if I actually got to take her out we might really hit it off without having to tip toe around people from work. I think we'd get to know each other a lot better on a date too. Should I ask her out or is it a bad idea?
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Note we don't work in the same departments anymore, so we don't even see each other all that much. Maybe a few time's a day at best.
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