There is a girl at work I'm really attracted to. Unfortunately, she works in a different department. So, I rarely see her and almost always she is on the go. I always say hi and flirt a little. Should I go for her number?
Here's what I would think about man:
- Go for it but be chill about it. Slip her a note or catch her when she's not super busy with a "hey, we should grab lunch sometime" kinda line.
- She might be weirded out dating someone from work though since you see each other there. So play it cool and don't make it a big deal either way.
- Have an excuse ready like "my friend bailed, wanna grab food?" so it doesn't seem like you're stalking her schedule.
- Make sure to respect her space at work too if she says no. Don't wanna make it uncomfortable you know?
- Hopefully she's into it! But don't stress too much if not - there's other fish and all that.
- Just be yourself, smile and see what happens. You got this bro! The worst she can say is no.
Let me know how it goes! I'm sure if you play it chill she'll appreciate you putting yourself out there. Good luck man!
That depends on how much you value your job. As soon as you approach her, you're giving her the power to have an impact on your job. Whether that will be in a positive or negative way is then left up to her...
m go for it
try to keep being nice so u dont creep her out
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Just ask her to lunch or whatever.
Sure as long as you keep it professional.
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