My girlfriend forgot we made plans to hang out tomorrow?

[Anonymous]

This really made me mad! Our relationship is already pretty rocky right now and it seems I'm the only one that wants to put any effort into it. To make matters worse, she texts me and says "oh, I forgot that I made plans with my best friend tomorrow. You can come with us though if you want" which basically means that she forgot she made plans with me or knew and made plans anyway with her friends instead. I'm so sick and tired of always being second in her life. I even bought her a present and now I don't think she deserves it. Does this sound like an honest mistake or something she did on purpose? She's not very busy so I think it was on purpose.

[Sublime21]

I'm having the same problem. I don't feel like I'm first. But whenever I try to end it he says he loves me and wants to work things out. MY way of dealing with thing?...I let him do whatever he wants and try not to get mad. I'm kind of zombie mode which maybe isn't fair to him but I can't keep getting upset. He is free to do what he wants and if what he wants to do what he keeps doing then it's over.

[Anonymous]

she's not interested. move on

[minniebear]

She is playing you big time you need to let her GO!