She forgot our date, seriously?

[Surfer96]

Need your opinion , help please, I've invited this girl (from work) to go out the weekend before this last and she said she already had plans but she propose to go this past Saturday , I've already told her the first time the place and everything, during the week she acted bit flirty but I've notice her texts were short and took a lot of time to reply , (id thought whe wanted to kee some mystery lol ) so last Saturday she didn't went to work I've text her and she told me she felt sick, so i did reply later i will contact her to see how things were going , and she thank me enthusiastically , i text her at evening , she told me she was way better i told her i was happy to "hear " that , then she told me that "even im on my way to a party" and send me a picture, and i was like "?, really?, so i call her and and she answer "yeah i feel much better and i go to my cousins party, why?, my reply was " id thought we would go out today, so..", and she said " oh im sorry really im sorry i forgot it", i told her" that was ok dont worry, im glad you feel better now, ill see you then," the next day didn't text me neither called me, on Monday i "acted " as normal as i could, and yesterday morning, she asked me " are you angry at me?, i can feel it"and i said "of course not" , thinking i dont want to get things weird at work, i recommend her a movie (the last thing i want is a coworker behaving weird ) and she text me thanks so much id thought you did hate me", i like her and she's flirty with me , and at this point im unable to "read " her, what do you think? is she just "playing" ? should i just move on and forget about her? thank you in advance sincerely : )

[Anonymous]

She’s not interested. If she was she would never forget about the date, and if she ”forgot” on purpose she’s also not interested and has no respect for you thinking she can treat you however and you won’t care and she don’t care if she may lose you. When women really like and respect you they’re eager and excited to see you, they’re trying their best and basically you’ll notice for sure she likes you. Move on.

[Surfer96]

Thank you really!, believe me i´m trying my best to think about it "cold", cause my logic says just the same as you cause i would never forget a date as well, i think ill be letting things happens now that the "ball is in her court", thanks again for your input and have a great day !

[PrettyPriya]

Why don’t you give another date a shot? If she does it again, move on.

Maybe she really did forget, maybe not. If she does it again, you’ll know.

[Surfer96]

Thank you really PrettyPriya, you're right she seems nice and would like to really "see"if its just things "looking " bad , appreciate your point and suggestion : ) !

[PrettyPriya]

@Surfer96

You are most welcome. Don’t give up just yet. We are ALL deserving of a second chance from time to time. 😊

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for MHG

[DonkeyDan]

I'd give her one more chance, but be prepared for her to blow you off again, maybe she won't but who knows.

[Surfer96]

Thank you , and you're right , i will keep that in mind so won't feel that bad if it happens right?, otherwise will be the way to be sure , thanks really !

[DonkeyDan]

Good luck though and hope it does work out.

[DonkeyDan]

Thanks for the MHO 👍

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Certainly leave it... if it happens later it happens, she is otherwise not interested in more than a flirt

[Surfer96]

Thank you really for your advice, and you're right , at this point today im just letting things unfold as the "ball is in her court" now and i try to be positive " if it happens will be good as well as if not " i think im bad while reading "mixed signals", but i will make an effort to improve, thanks again dude !

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Bah, the whole 'be positive' thing. Just live a good life, why so much hope when time is wasted hoping someone else will validate you, when most people like to play it for some personal 'benefit'

[TobyMercury1]

Give her another chance, if she does it again, then you're not on her mind, so move on.

[Surfer96]

Thanks really, that would confirm it, really aprecciate your advice !

[TobyMercury1]

You're welcome

[Avicenna]

Yeah, I'd move on

[Surfer96]

Appreciate your advice, during the weekend i felt bad and thought "if it was Brad Pitt asking her out.." hehe i really think i will test the waters one more time just to really comfirm it , but this time i will be more prepared not expecting much in case she doesn't show interest, thanks dude !

[Avicenna]

Sorry to hear this happened to you