When I secretly wanted a boy at school to see my body I would put a bikini picture on Instagram. What did girls do before social media?

[Anonymous]

[aaron13547]

Well I think they had to not be so secret about it lol. Instead of showing everyone, In Hopes of getting one persons interest. they had to get close enough to that one person to get asked to the pool or lake. become the girl this guy would want... find out if he is the guy you really want...

A secret is a fear we keep to ourselves you should just tell the dude you like him.

You fear telling this dude you like him but not showing your body to everyone... lol you got this! just believe it and stop gettin in your own way. 😉

That Instagram picture might get his attention but it might also get everyone but his attention. You just sending him a message, work the picture into it later if you really have to... that will tell him you like him if thats the way you want go about it...

[ohsheeT]

We found a way to communicate, just like what you just did with putting your picture up. And it's form of communication

At the same time , I was sixteen and a half , when I moved out of my parents' house and I moved in with two twin brothers and another friend and on the weekends we would have keg parties so we\nWere always communicating, that's life. You have to communicate if you want to go someplace to something meet somebody , you have to know how to communicate otherwise you're just going to send smoke signals. And on a windy day your message gets all messed up

[FreyaRed]

They seduced them the old way, while playing with their imagination what could be under those clothes. It seems it worked better than social media since relationship were more stable in the past.

[linka_pat307]

I think they confident to the point... they told guys they liked they wanted them

[LemonsAreLae]

Your correct.

[DJB72]

They were more direct and less full of shit when a guy said something he thought was a compliment - including "nice tits". If course if it was unwelcome the slap that followed the comment was part of what we called "effective communication" and if he raised his hand to her in response a large number of other guys would step in.

[DryGermanGuy]

Back in my days we used to write each other little love letters and have them delivered by others. But I guess the kids today only want to stare into a phone screen? 🤷‍♂️

[LemonsAreLae]

Most of my girlfriend's asked me out and i always said yes, they were attractive i was into them as well. My mantra is if your into them they are probobly into you.

i wanna say more then half of my relationships existed because a girl asked me out


I recomend just asking, work up the courage, he will probobly say yes.

[Lliam]

They hung out in the same circles and went to pool parties or the beach where the guy would be.

[Desi_Butcher]

They'd have to approach the guy or wait for the guy to approach them. Some would tease the guy with skin show but it just wasn't easy before social media..
by the way is that you in the pic?

[AviatorTom]

Sometimes a post-it note stuck on your locker. Not too obvious though, she only wanted you to see it and figure out who put it there.

[Iron_Man]

They’ll just hand you the pictures at the locker room

[snapkingmatt]

Nice body! Thank you for sharing your pic 😉

[soe11]

• The first answer was perfect.
• It is attractive looking and building confidence.

[WonderingManII]

I don't think girls used their bodies as much. Instead they flirted with the guy liked directly.

[elTAHAwy]

Is this picture in the red sea because it looks like the red sea so much and mountains in the background,

[exitseven]

They used to flash a guy that they liked.

[Iron_Man]

That would be nice to have a girl tell you here’s a couple of pictures look at my bikini pictures

[jahaims]

Their were less attention whores. Societal and cultural values have gone down hill.

[Bloodparadise]

I would approach them and ask if they wanna get closer, romantic

[Anonymous]

Before social networks, girls were more decent.

[Ariesman81]

😂😂😂😂... got treated with respect

[Likes2drive]

Only sent little notes to him in class

[beefcakebradybatson]

I'm 72, I forget.

[Twalli]

They went places where he could see her.

[Sebastian100]

Is that you in the picture?

[Raydergman26]

I put mine on social media and sexy

[abc3643]

Behave like ladies.

[shortster]

Pool party