Is it okay for a girl to post bikini pictures when she has a boyfriend?

[sunshinebear]

[monkey]

Is it okay for a girl to post bikini pictures when she has a boyfriend?

The answer to this question is a little complicated. On one hand, you could argue that it is perfectly fine for a girl to post bikini pictures when she has a boyfriend. After all, she is just showing off her body and enjoying the summer sun. What harm could it possibly do?

On the other hand, you could argue that it is not okay for a girl to post bikini pictures when she has a boyfriend. After all, he might not be happy with her flaunting her body in public. Additionally, it could make other girls feel self-conscious about their own bodies.

So, what is the verdict? Is it okay for a girl to post bikini pictures when she has a boyfriend? The answer is: it depends. If you are comfortable with your boyfriend seeing you in a bikini, then go ahead and post those pictures. However, if you think he might not be happy about it, or if you think it might make other girls feel bad, then you might want to rethink posting those pictures.

[DrPussweimer]

Id dumb your shits rs, not because of jealousy or to put my foot in how many followers you have... if you need to post pictures of your body for everyone else too see then there is something im not doing right if you feel it nessasary to post pictures of your body to feel good about yourself... thats how i feel about that. Obviously an opinion but im sure there's other dudes out there that dont mind that. Its discretionary to the person i guess, id ask before and be real before you lose the image you have in your boyfriends head.

[honorboundHeart884]

To be honest if I had a girlfriend , I'd accept it as long as it's tasteful and not rachet like some of those micro bikinis are.

My point is if in relationship, both people must remain aware of one another's feelings.

It's not my place to keep her from having fun, but one must remain respect and morals to certian extent to respect one another.

[Cherokeehp]

I think it just depends on the photo and how you and your boyfriend feel about it. Bathing suit pics can be innocent. If you wanted to share a picture of yourself having a great day at the beach then I think it can be ok. If you’re in a bikini and making suggestive poses or facial expressions or intentionally trying to take a sexy photo, then I don’t think it’s ok. Also some guys don’t mind if their girlfriends post sexy pics. Some guys do mind. I suppose it all just depends.

[lumos]

Yes. She can post whatever pics she wants. If he's not ok with it, he doesn't have to be her boyfriend. Pretty simple really.

[Apple1996]

Yes considering she is already going outside in public like that so I don't know how a pic is any different

[BlueX]

Right? Won't people at the beach/ocean/pool see her in said bikini?

[Apple1996]

@BlueX exactly they will see anyways

[Apope16]

Yesss. of course it is. No boyfriend has a right to control your own pictures. Thats pretty crazy. If I had a girlfriend I would want my girlfriend to look hot where other people were jealous.

[AviatorTom]

Sure, why not? A bikini is just a woman's bathing suit.

[pervertedjester]

As long as he gets to see it on you first, shouldn't be an issue.

[coachTanthony]

Amazing to see all the user names that are no longer here anymore on this thread.

[MzAsh]

Why wouldn’t it be ok is the real question.

[Dragonspawn]

I would say that it is not okay in the sense that in the relationship her partner might feel uncomfortable with others (specifically other men) looking at their partner lecherously. Though I feel if she is aware of how her partner feels it is indeed her choice to do as she pleases.

[MzAsh]

Yeah I understand jealousy might be an issue to some but that’s why it’s important to have a partner that is secure with themselves so they don’t let that jealousy get out of control.

[Dragonspawn]

I agree whole heartedly

[BeMuse]

If you have a boyfriend and you're still taking selfies to get attention, you have some serious self esteem issues... If pictures are taken of you doing stuff at the beach or something like that for memories (e. g. you just caught a big redfish your first time surf fishing) and you just so happen to be wearing a bikini that day, then no big deal. If your twisting around with a selfie stick to take an ass picture with your bikini on in the middle of winter in your apartment, well that's another issue.

[btbc92]

Ask your parents and see if their happy with you doing it. I wouldn't. And she can do whatever she want because she at that point is not married. If she was married, that is a different story. Everything has consequences. At the end of the day, who are you trying to impress, and why?

This answer is given and implied that it's not a personal question towards you. The real deal here is this, don't do anything you will be judged for and unproud of later.

[Flamdring]

It is totally fine to post bikini pictures. As men we can post our pictures wearing boxers or even nothing at all, so girls can do the same. Body is just body. If you go to the beach while being in a relationship, would you feel ashamed? Men and women will look at you and your partner and while some will just notice you, others will stare. Basically, I see no reason to control someone or feel controlled. It is never healthy.

[knallpilz]

Depends on the boundaries of the relationship.

If it's OK for him to look at other girl's bikini pictures, sure.
Even if not, if he's OK with it...

Thing's don't have to always even out on each relation level exactly, all the time.
It just has to be balanced overall. Maybe she has more freedom in regards to being eye candy for other guys. And in turn he has more freedom in his boyfriend duties. Whatever that may be. As long as the parties involved know what they're doing and are OK with the deal.

[molonski2]

Its never a good idea full stop ! And she should have a lot more respect for herself , however , if she is going to have any social media " influence " she will have to post this and a great deal more , and thats whats happening.

Its like asking can a stripper have a boyfriend? The answer is of course yes , although long term the relationship will get testy , really , who wants the pussy ground up against some guys erect member? What kind of dude accepts that? One who loves easy money and doesn't care how it comes.

The bikini piccies have nothing to do with whether she has a boyfriend , she is just asking for further affirmation , its not a good idea.

[Mazet]

Of cause it's totally fine or should be. It's not like they married or something not saying that those married ones can't. But it shouldn't be an issue. It's only a picture and were those people who will see the picture, were they at that location where the picture was taken they would have seen u anyway.

[Anonymous]

Yea.. why wouldn't she? She's her own person, right? Your reaction to her posting pics of herself wearing a bikini is totally off-base. Honestly, if you're this threatened by something as harmless as bikini pics, then you need to do the right thing, save her a lot of time and stress, and leave the relationship. Be honest with her: "I'm sorry, but I cannot change or be okay with you living your life. I do not deserve you. I will either be alone the rest of my life, or find a partner who will want me to control every aspect of their life. You deserve someone who actually values and cares for you being you." Tell her that, and then get out of her life.

Seriously, "is it okay for a girl to post bikini pics when she has a boyfriend"... what a joke

[xBree]

YES FREE WORLD! PUSSY POWER! lol sorry I'm a bit tipsy 😂

[sunshinebear]

Yas 😂

[BraydenC]

Obviously wearing a bikini to the beach and having people look is normal, but it seems social media has twisted society up in an alternate reality almost. Say your girlfriend was standing on the beach and people on her social media were there in real life, they look her up and down, zoom in on the boobs and then say yeah I really like that straight to the your faces, should the boyfriend be angry or let it go? I think any good man would be angry, man with little care wouldn't, as any good woman would take into account the man's feelings before letting others engage with a photo of his ladies body, what if boyfriends dad and grandparents see this? STOP DOING SHIT FOR LIKES!! ITS WRONG!

[Dragonspawn]

That, in my opinion, would be a more personal thing the couple should discuss. As for me, I prefer that my girlfriend not post anything too revealing as I grew up with more old fashion traditions. Though I respect that if she would like to post such things she may. I let her know how I feel but in the end it is her decision.

[xyz94]

Should it not be up to the girl herself though, since it is her body?

[Reaperbot666]

if it was for his eyes only or he was also in the picture. then maybe it would be ok.

but if she is posting them just to get attention from others. then no

then again it depends if it is a selfie or a group picture with friends.

truly it depends on the guy and how insecure he or you are about the matter.

[Reaperbot666]

put it this way. would you want to post pictures of yourself in your underwear (bra and panties) online for everyone to see? a bikini is pretty much the same thing or at least covers around the same amount of your body. depending on the style of it.

[sunshinebear]

I guess it would be okay in my case as I don’t go out of my way to post a pic of me just in a bikini/underwear. If I was in a bikini in a pic it would be when I’m on vacation

[kim45456]

What would you do in return?

[Singing_Hollow]

If a woman is posting pictures of her body showing skin other than for her partner, then she is looking for validation from men that are NOT her partner and she will get it. Personally I think its cheap and disrespectful to a man that put his energy and time into loving me. If you feel you need attention from other males and that makes you feel good about yourself then either your man needs to complement you more or you are just an attention seeker.

[hahahmm]

That depends on the type of relationship. In a traditional relationship she needs her man’s approval because she is advertising herself to other men. Today it’s common for guys to be cucks or to have zero loyalty from the woman and not even realize that the reason she’s advertising is because she’s hoping to find someone better than him. This only applies to serious relationships tho. If you’re just ‘friends’ then of course she can parade naked even & it’s none of the guy’s business

[Kiran_Yagami]

Depends on the relationship, but I wouldn't have a problem with it. I'd expect to get to see her in those bikinis whenever I want, however. If we are in a relationship together, I want to feel special. I want different treatment than everyone else. BETTER treatment. So if you post bikini picks, I want to see that bikini in person. And take it off you.

[artgorgeous]

Yes, its ok for her, because she obviously does that. And for girls who don't - its not. From a man's perspective - it depends on what intentions she has - if she wants to attract more attention from other guys, while still having a boyfriend, in this case the relationships are done, its a dead end, its not ok. If she does that for a different reason (advertisement of a brand, travel agency, etc) then its ok.