Is it okay for a girl to post bikini pictures when she has a boyfriend? (Page 2)
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Go ahead, I'm not going to complain. I know of a certain science guy in Florida who took videos of his wife in a bikini and posted them to Youtube. All the guys were gawking over her, she's gorgeous. Her name is Denise.
depending on how the relationship is lived, if the long distance relationship will be a little worrying and at the same time testing its loyalty to you in the face of the temptations of other men, if the relationship is not separated and can meet every day I think no problem
Are you saying that the girlfriend should not be able to go out in public. That her body be covered completely, because she is your property.
WRONG!!!
She should be able to dress a way that makes her happy. If she like bikinis let her wear them, there actually no difference between going to the beach in a bikini or posting your day out on line.
Now nude photos is something you both have to agree on.
might depend on how reveling her swimsuit was, how well it flattered her figure and the meaning behind posting the photo. because the average bikini covers roughly the same amount of skin as a standard bra and panties do. so it would almost be like she was posting a underwear photo online for others to see.
I think of bikini pictures as irrational cause wearing a bikini is similar to wearing underwear and you won't post any pictures of you wearing underwear on social media or share them with anyone that is why I don't get bikini pictures like I don't understand why people do that
I FORCE her little Azz to. It ironically attracts other hot females when I flaunt the BDSM Subs and Slaves I have. And when I was in a relationship, I noticed the hotter my girlfriend looked, the more females would give me attention. I only date Bi Heauxs, who are willing to share me, so making her look good in pics to attract more female attention is exactly what I want.
What are Bi Heauxs?
@Guardian45 You gotta go ask someone in Louisiana to figure that out
I don't know anyone in Louisiana
A girl can post whatever she likes as long she's willing to endure the consequences of her actions.
I don't speak for anyone else, but I think there are far too many people, especially young people, who post things on social media without a lick of a thought, that they will one day regret it. Once it's on the web; it's there FOREVER!
Posting bikini pics is close to advertising for attention from a guy. It's probably best if a girl doesn't post bikini pics if she has a boyfriend.
What is he going to do in return?
He can stop posting pics of himself in a speedo
I have never posted a photo of me online like that.. if friends have I have inboxed them asking them to remove it
May I ask why
Dont want that broadcasted.. its pretty much the same as a bra and underwear.. so I rather leave somethings up to someones imagination
As long as she's not trying to seduce anybody else, I don't see how it can be construed as an issue. She has the right to post as she pleases so long as she isn't overstepping any relationship boundaries (and as long as what she posts isn't criminal).
If she’s on holiday in a pool or on a beach yes. But they should be natural, not too posey like they’re seeking attention elsewhere. I don’t understand guys who are against it in that sense. I’d avoid them personally.
I think it says something about her need for praise, acceptance and vanity. Quantity of likes does not make a better person. Quality in the relations we have, do. My further guess is she’s in the wrong relationship.
No. And guys, you shouldn't tolerate it. Its means she is looking for attention and validation from other men. Almost definitely means your relationship is doomed.
Do you obey your husband too?
@kim45456 Im not married
You are overeacting. Some men usually post Pics of them like that. Would you have a problem with it, if your boyfriend post a pic of him in which he is shirtless?
@kim45456 If he was doing it to get attention from other women, yes I would have a problem with it.
So posting shirtless pics means not necassarily seeking for attention but posting a bikini pis is? She can post a bikini pic without seeking attention
@kim45456 Correct. Because men aren't usually able to attract female attention in that manner. Unless their body is really something special. Even then they will probably invite more ridicule than positive attention. The same is not true for women. She knows she is going to attract lots of male attention in a bikini.
You are proabably a guy
You can interpret shit. It is not her fault when some men give her attantion even if she does not want it. She does not have to change herself just because some random dude does give her attention. I know modest girls who get attention from men
@kim45456 I think that's a cop out. She knows what the outcome will be and does it anyway. You can't say she bears no responsibility for drawing sexual attention to herself. She doesn't have to change, but her boyfriend doesn't have to put up with it either. And I submit that he shouldn't.
@kim45456 Lol. Im not a guy. Im just a chick with zero tolerance for bullshit. Sorry to say but 90% of the bullshit is coming from women these days.
It is not her fault period. Go tell this to that men. Why do she have to face consequences? He should stop being incesure. Sorry but what is he going to do in return? Is he going to stop watching porno? Men usually watch porno and like naked girls but you stupid idiots dont have a problem with it. It is hypocritical
@joanofarcher you are still hypocritical
You act like an insecure man
You are probabyl these girls who like sharing dick
@kim45456 Why is it insecure to disapprove of the fact that your girlfriend is seeking attention from other men? If anything, I'd say she is insecure for parading around half naked on social media. How is that hypocritical? Watching porn isn't seeking validation from other women. Its masturbating to images of people he doesn't know or interact with. Evenso, I don't necessarily approve of the fact that he is doing it. Unless we're doing it together
Watching porno is a form of cheating. He is imagining how he fucks these pornostars while posting pics means nothing. Again she does not have to take any responsibility when any man give ger attention. Women get 24/7 attention from men without doing a shit. You can get cat called even if you are modest. So it is pointless. Some women like her body and like it present it. Men are not children.
That is why i think if he wants a girl to be modest he should do something in return.
@kim45456 You're equivocating and you know it. There's a difference between getting catcalled on the street when you've done nothing to invite it and flaunting your body all over social media when you're in a committed relationship. Why any self respecting man would tolerate that is beyond me. He's probably too naive to see what's actually going on there.
You also can get attention by posting normal pic of you. So it is senseless to change yourself. He have to do something in return, if he does not like when his girlfriend post pic like that
@kim45456 In return? You act like she's doing him a favor by not disrespecting the boundaries of their relationship. That's just common decency. If you don't have that baseline of respect and understanding the relationship is doomed. And in the scenario you present its definitely her fault.
Yes, in return. You except a girl to change
At least he should do the same and dont post any pic of him
@kim45456 Again, that's akin to getting catcalled on the street when you've done nothing to invite it. A worthwhile boyfriend isn't going to fault you for that. But what you're suggesting is something totally different. You think he owes you something for not disrespecting your relationship with him.
He disrespect by fabing on other girls. So what? He can disrespect you but you cant? Again then he should not post any shit about him. You think he can post a pic of him but you cant? What is the point of relationsship then?
@kim45456 Why? That's not going to attract hordes of female attention. Unless he's like exceptionally gorgeous.
Yeah then he should stop watching porno. He does not like that other men give attention to her but he give attention to these girls. I still dont get how you think it is ok for a man to fab on other girls.
Do you fab on other men than your bf?
He should at least does not post any shit about him a matter of principle.
You are clearly saying that men can disrespect but women can't. A woman dont respect herself when she is ok that her hoe boyfriend fab on other girls. While your boyfriend can control whom he is fabing on, you can't control the attention of other men.
it must be because guys with girlfriends look at those girls posting the pics in bikinis
If anything, she should be even more enthusiastic about posting pictures of herself in a swimsuit or other kinds of revealing clothing. I can't imagine any guy who wouldn't want his girlfriend to show off her sexy figure.
Is she posting it to get attention from guys? Or is she posting it because she's feeling good about herself? Or maybe she's just enjoying the beach or pool. I don't think it's faithful of her to try and get attention from guys. But feeling good about herself or enjoying a fun day swimming is appropriate.
Yes of course. She's allowed to go to the beach with her friends if she wants.. and by definition allowed to take photos..
Guys who are possessive and wish to stop their g/f having fun always seem to wind up as the same thing... an EX.
Yes, guys love that.
Me too! lol
wow wow wow
Yes, as long as she isn't actively flirting with other men online, I don't see an issue with it.
Why wouldn't it be? Post whatever you feel comfortable posting. I will tell you this , if said boyfriend has a problem with any pictures you post he will eventually have a problem with every picture you post. Jealous , controlling insecure boyfriends turn into wife beating , emotionally abusive husbands.