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Is it okay for a girl to post bikini pictures when she has a boyfriend? (Page 2)
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Absolutely not, if she needs that validation outside her relationship she shouldn’t be in one. Her boyfriend should be her 5D photo album.
It is her body
That’s exactly the point it’s her body not the whole worlds.
Yes, it her body and he does not own it. Do you live in saudi arabia? I am sure you dont give a fuck when your boyfriend post shirtless pic of himself
Well we have a Mutual agreement regarding posting certain pictures. Now that I think of it, if her boyfriend doesn’t care then she should just bare it all if she wants to. It shows how much she respects him and how much attention she needs outside of the relationship. You’re right it’s her body... who cares right? Why should her boyfriend care? Maybe he doesn’t see a figure with her anyway.
Future ** forgive me as I’m using voice to text.
Do you also think a boy should not post pics?
Yes I think it should be fair between the two of them. A mutual agreement.
I find it quite unusual because it's like she's needing more attention other than her husband
It's up to the girl, it's her body. If the boyfriend dislikes it that much, he can leave her - but that would be stupid.
Yes...
I don’t see why her having a boyfriend would change whether it’s okay or not.
Would you get upset if your boyfriend liked pictures of other girls?
in short yes. i mean the bikini is what you wear so why would it be a problem to have a picture of you in the bikini
If she has boyfriend who is that understanding, she's a lucky gal. Sure, if she wants.
Yeah, but, you have to wonder why. if she's a model, sure i get it but, if not, then why
And if she is a model and posting, then he knew that going in. He just has to be secure enough knowing she's just doing it to get women to buy them
Duh. If it’s okay for her to walk around in it, then yes. She can post on it.
It's perfectly okay, her body, her IG channel, and it's also perfectly okay if her boyfriend doesn't take her seriously.
Yes of course. Bikini is not absolutely sexual. You wear it in public on the beach.
As long if he knows about it and visa versa if he was posting pics of him in swim trunks then who cares. if they dony then why should we
If it’s vacation, pool picture- why not! Otherwise it could be a little weird.
It's riding a fine line don't u think? Who needs to post pictures of themselves anyway, I hate people that are doing that all the time, it's fucking cringe, your either insecure or a narcissist!
If you got it, flaunt it! What's wrong with people sharing pretty pictures of themselves for others to enjoy?
@MsElizabeth96 'if you got it, flaunt it'
is that like your bible or something? Why should I defer to that silly, narcissistic, hedonistic phrase? Have you ever heard of being humble? Humility, one of the greatest virtues in the world?
For people like myself, the more humble a person is about their assets, whether they be skills or beauty, the more respect I have for them, and I know many feel as I do. These bikini girls will get attention, ofc, but not respect
Being humble means not thinking too much of yourself and not thinking you're better than others, it doesn't mean hiding your positive qualities.
Being aware of your positive qualities, whether it be your appearance or talents, and sharing them for others to enjoy, is a good thing. If a person is attractive, why should t they let the world enjoy it?
@MsElizabeth96 taking pictures of yourself in a bikini and posting them to the world is not humble, it is the opposite of humble. If you want me to break that equation down for you I'd be happy to, but I REALLY DON'T THINK IT REQUIRES EXPLAINING!
Also by your logic, talented musicians should never perform on stage or record albums, and artists should keep their work private and never let anyone see, all in the name of being 'humble'
Where's the fun in that?
@MsElizabeth96 nope, that's not my logic. A talented musician makes a living by performing on stage, he is merely performing his trade. Also, being a skilled piano player is a lot different than being born into a body that looks good. Something you worked for (and nobody comes out of the womb a good musician, talent or not it requires a lot of practice) is a lot less bad to brag about than something you were simply given.
No one said anything about bragging, we're talking about simply sharing a picture. Do you also think professionals models are 'narcasists' for simply trying to put food on the table?
Do you think we should all be ashamed of positive qualities we were born with? What if the person is posting pictures to show off their makeup or outfit, those were things they weren't born with and had to earn
@MsElizabeth96 I think professional models are narcissists
I didn't say to be ashamed, I said to be humble. Just because you don't post pics of yourself in a bikini does not mean you are ashamed.
Spending a bunch of time painting your face and buying expensive clothes to make yourself look prettier then posting it on social media is one of the most insecure things a person can do in my opinion.
As I said, you are either insecure or a narcissist!
Oh wow, that just says everything about you doesn't it...😅 Now simply earning a living to survive is narcissistic... How dare people not want to live on the streets and starve to death, so full of themselves, amiright?🙄
I Guess everyone on the planet is just an 'insecure narcissist' then, simply for existing, lol.
You must be a blast at parties...
Wash some dishes whore
Thats what I did to survive when I had no marketable skills, and its some hard work u can take pride in
You WORKED for MONEY? How narsasistic of you, you must be so insecure.
If you were humble you'd just let yourself starve to death
Work should involve some actual work, not just letting horny dudes stare at u. A girl should have more going for her than looks, if all she has is looks she's worthless
Sounds like someone's jealous of professional models, feeling a bit insecure are we? :)
U cudnt be more wrong but enjoy ur fantasy lol bye
Depends on the rest of the picture, is it vacation with friends and so on? If it's her alone and lots of sexy shapes and so on then there is no point really
Would you stop liking any girls on insta for example or delete any social website in which girls posting pics like that if your girlfriend want it? But in return she stop posting any pic of her?
I'm a photographer so I will not do any deleting of ant kind. I would date dating apps, but no photo app deleting. But I don't go and like naked girls on apps because I'm not a 15 year old idiot
*delete dating apps
I'd like to say no, bot if she's with him it's totally cool but if she was with other people mostly around guys I wouldn't be okay with it. It's almost as bad as them letting us dance with other women at the club
You can do whatever you want. But if he objects and you say "you can't tell me what to do", expect the same answer from him when you object to him hanging out with his ex girlfriend (s).
How does posting a picture in your bikini equate to hanging out with your ex?
It is not the same. You are comparing postin pics vs. being a male whore
The equivalent would be a guy posting shirtless pics and that sorta stuff I guess
@Dinklex3 The principle is the same.
@kim45456 So, hanging out with someone is suddenly whoring?
This is exactly why i used this example. The principle is exactly the same: you are doing what you want regardless of what the other thinks about it.
The principle is exactly the same. I didn't say the guy os cheating. I said he's hanging out with someone you don't like.
It's not though, lol.
The principal would be the same if he posted pics with his shirt off.
Itd be the same if they BOTH hung out with their ex's.
That's a whole different level.
@Dinklex3 Things don't have to be tit-for-tat to be covered by the same excuse.
@BrotherFrost hanging out with ex gfs make you a whore. How would feel if she do the same?
@kim45456 "I can do what i want" excuse covers both cases.
It is not the same. You can post a pic of you like that too
@kim45456 How is it not the same? And what if the guy is fat or just doesn't want to post his picture in this tit-for-tat movie?
Posting pis means posting means. Flirting means flirting. If you flirt with other girls, she also can flirt with other guys. And men usually fab on halfnaked girls on the internet. So if he does not like that other men give her attention, why is he giving other girls on the internet attention by liking girls in bikini or watching porno
@kim45456 That is a lot of assumptions right there. And what if the guy does none of those things?
Then she also should not do these things
I think a bikini pic is fine and it can be cute but it depends on the poses and the vibe of the picture that makes it more sensual
No probly not unless he’s cool with it.
My question would be why is she wanting too.
If you like modest girls, then date modest girls. You dont have the right to change her and have a say in it
So it depends. If she always posting pics like that and you clearly dont like such girls why are you dating them? Do you really think you can change her?
I’m okay with my gal posting her’s. Some other guys mind it so much. I don’t mind.
I say yes, swimwear is exactly what it says. Clothing for swimming.
Not a big deal.
Why not? Let her show the fact that she likes her body or wants to show the world her fashion sense.
Of course it is, and why didn't you make this a poll?
Oh no, it's not ok, cuz all guys view it different. For me I don't mind, but depends on the environment you are in like nude beach
Of course, guys don’t tell us what to wear, if they do they will probably be looking for a new girlfriend
No it isn't. Why are you seeking attention from others?
Dont expose yourself for the sake of fitting in, or uploading.
It's a great idea. Will keep him motivated to compete for you
Shouldn't be a competition. Love each other don't play games
Competition doesn't have room for love
That's why it shouldn't be a competition, so you could take the time and actually love someone for who they really are, and not be disloyal and fall for someone the minute they give you some attention,
You'd be cool with him flirting with a bunch of other girls to "keep you motivated"?
@joanofarcher your boyfriend is probably liking pis like that and fab on it. And it is not the sane. He can post shirtless pic too
@kim45456 Why is it not the same?
Postin pis means posting pis
Not whoring
Flirting with people in real life is whiring while posting pics meabs nothing
He can also post a pic of him like that
@kim45456 What if he looks really good shirtless and dozens of girls are liking it. Maybe a few of them are prettier than you. You're ok with him doing this to "keep you motivated"?
You girls do know that guys get more sexually attracted to you based off of your picture online compared to how much girls get attracted to a guy based off his picture online, right?
That's why although women watch porn for a more lengthy amount of time, about 3 quarters of the porn audience are males, at least as it pertains to pornhub.
But I mean it should be common sense, just look at how many females in any large online community such as G@G, complain about unwanted messages from guys. These guys are obviously trying to pursue them, as more evidence that males are more driven to pursue their sexual prospects than females. So then, just imagine if a girlfriend who posts revealing pictures online was pursued by a guy she, even irl found attractive, and perhaps more attractive than her boyfriend. Is she gonna complain or respond to his dm? Because she triggered his uniquely masculine hormonal response of sexual stimulation by excessively showing her skin and shape, which drives him to pursue. It's simple biology. This should be common.
Why walk in the street and risk getting hit by a car when there's a sidewalk like RIGHT THERE. The person in the street is being irresponsible to begin with.
My point is, a guy posting pictures and a girl posting pictures only are not the same situation. They most often don't play out the same. It's effectively far more inconsiderate to the boyfriend for the girl to post revealing pictures. But I will say that it's inconsiderate both ways.
**This should be common sense**
online* not only
@Lightning yes you are right. That is why boys should cover their eyes and a woman cover her body. So a man should not watch porn by your logic
If you dont like your girlfriend get attention by some random dudes, then you also should not give attentuon to these girls by not watching porn otherwise you are hypocritical
I'm not even advocating for porn, but you do realize that "online" includes social media where people nearby or that you know irl can your photos too, right? But beyond that, porn actors don't dm their viewers to where it's now up to the viewer as to whether things go further. It's not the same thing, but no I don't recommend porn.
**that you know irl can [see] your photos**
I feel like, why would a guy need porn if he has a girlfriend?
I get you but It is way worse. You are imagining how you are fucking the pornstar. That is like " cheating". In most hetero pornos the guy is ugly. So women usually dont get turned on by the male pornostars and they get sexually aroused how the female addult actor get fucked. And a girl who is posting a pic of hersefl dont have to answere the messages she get by random dudes. I also dont understand why men do that. Dont they have gfs or wives?
@Lightning8 yeah I dont understand it too. Why do men watch porn when they have girlfriend haha?
Ok i kinda understand the man too. No man wants to that some dudes fab on his girlfriend. Haha
I mean there's a difference between the photo being taken somewhere at the beach and the girl just showing off.
Always better to check with the boyfriend first! Don't want to risk upset!
If she is trying to get sexual attention from other men then NO.
If she is at a pool or a beach or something then I don't see a problem no
It's his choice if he wants to stay with her or not.
I personally wouldn't stay with a cheap attention whore.
I did post some pictures of mine wearing super mini skirts here on GAG :)
Okay or not, females are going to do whatever the heck they want to do.
If the boy friend is comfortable with it yeah and if he trusts her yeah, but the girl should go and message back the guys that comment on them or like it. Then that's wrong. It all depends on the kind of relationship y'all have,
You are 14. Teenies usually think they own its partner
That's cs they usually aren't raised to be respectful towards woman, they aren't taught that woman are not an item,
I was raised only by my mom. So she taught me how to treat a woman the right way
Wait are you really 14?
No I'm 19 but I like to see how people judge the perspective of someone younger. As you have done, and I don't blame you but at 14 I was taught all of that, my mom raised me for 18 years so when I grew up and found someone is treat her like a queen, with respect, with love, and care, be loyal and honest, and to always meet her needs.
I do apologize for the deception and not being my true age on here
Someone said something like this a few days ago: "Why advertise something that's off the market?".
When are you guys stop comparing women to objects?
@kim45456 when they stop posting bikini or nude pictures of themselves on social media while they are in relationships.
Why so insecure?
No, i can understand if you prefere modest girls. But then date modest girls. If you know it that the girl is always posting pis like that, you have no right to change her
@kim45456 I'm not insecure because I don't date at all; which is a good thing because if I found a bikini or nude pic of my girlfriend on social media, it would be an immediate and permanent dealbreaker for me.
It means she's desperate for attention and vain. So yes it's bad.
Sure, if the boyfriend is confident in her he should find it more or less as empowering as her.
I wouldn't have any problem with it, but a lot of guys would and do.
Why do women feel the need to pose in bikinis and take selfies? Vanity?
My boyfriend is the first one to like it so yea. lol depends on the photo I’m usually covered up I prefer one piece swim suits
Yeah I think so because if she's at a public pool or a beach in the bikini people will see either way
Yup she has the rights to post as she needs... Even full nude pic is ok
No problemo. But maybe it is also ok for the boyfriend to share those pictures with his friends?
Sure it is. Its alright for her to take sexy ones too. Nothing is wrong with the human body.
Yeah, sure. She can do what she wants. She should just think about how her boyfriend would react.
You should ask your boyfriend before / after posting your bikini pictures online. Ask him how does he feels about it?
as long as her man approves. would she okay if her man posted only underwear pics to post on social media.
I'd say to discuss it with your boyfriend first, that's what I would do
I think it's great. I'd be happy to date someone confident enough in her beauty to want to show it, but a more jealous or possessive man might take a dimmer view.
While I don't agree with her doing it, I can't control what she does. It's not my body
as long as she says it to him an as long as there not see through suits
If she already has a boyfriend, why does she need to advertise her package?
No that would piss me off because that tells me she wants guy to look at her
that is between yoy and him, y'all decide the boundaries in your relationship, not us
it's ur life... u can do whatever u want to do... it could be anything 🤝
The question is what's the real reason, not the alternative one's.
Well if she had self respect when i started dating her and then she changed and started posting pics like that, i don't think its ok.
Of course. Important to me is that she does not let Touch herself by other men.
Yeah he should be proud of you and your confidence x