Was she trying to friend zone me?

[Anonymous]

So I meet a girl at work and we're cool. One day I posted on Snapchat about having a crush on her. It was indirect but it clearly was about her. She swiped up and said something like "you crushing?". I confirmed but I didn't make a move. Then time went by and I was checking the temperature on me and her and she said she was "talking to someone". I took that as rejection. Time went by. One night I posted on Snapchat about my cousin being in jail. She swiped up and we talked. She was talking about her situation with the other guy. This happened at night and off the clock. She never had a precedent of coming to me about her situations. This was the first time

[HollyK21]

Well yeah I’d say you’re friendzoned at least for now if she says she’s seeing someone and even talked to you about him. It’s too bad you didn’t take your shot, if you get another chance one day try not to blow it again.

[Asker]

Where did I have a shot?

[HollyK21]

Your shot was when you went out of your way to make a Snapchat suggesting she was your crush, why do all that just to chicken out? Especially since she commented on it you had a window right then and there.

[Asker]

I confirmed it

[HollyK21]

“I confirmed but I didn't make a move.”

Your words. Like I said, you didn’t do anything about it, you could’ve asked her out, for her number or something and you didn’t.

[Asker]

Yeah you're right. I definitely chickened out. I thought she would have said no

[HollyK21]

Rejection sucks of course but it isn’t gonna kill you, and if you think it would then you’ve really got to work on your self esteem.

[Mariogirl09]

I think you're in the friend zone... I doubt she even knows you like her... but thats your fault

[Asker]

Did you even read the extra details?

[Mariogirl09]

Oh my bad. Yea she doesn't like you. She may have been putting you in the friend zone... amd yes by talking about her guy

[jamesgoldman]

Sounds like the friendzone media popularize so much

[Asker]

But is that the real friend zone?

[jamesgoldman]

I've never been in it myself to know