If you and a girl haven't talked in a while after some tension and she reaches out to you giving you her new phone number, what should you do?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

What do you want? Do you want to see her? Then ask her out. She's practically begging you to.

If you don't, then just acknowledge it but don't pursue it.

[Asker]

How is she practically begging me to ask her out? I thought she wanted to be my friend

[slatyb]

If that was all she wanted, she wouldn't have bothered. It sounds like you want to date her. Ask her now or watch her go with someone else.

[Mariogirl09]

You probably should just ignore it?

[Asker]

Why ignore it?

[Mariogirl09]

Because your too afraid to make a move

[Asker]

You mean like ask her out? That's what I should do?

[Mariogirl09]

You can... if you think its a good idea or ask her to hangout

[Asker]

Okay I didn't know it was okay. I thought she did this because she wants to be friends again

[Mariogirl09]

She probably does. Take it slow you should of asked her to hang out

[Asker]

I didn't think we could hang out as friends because she knows I like her

[Mariogirl09]

Why would you think that? Why would she give you her number?

[Asker]

It's been known I had a crush on her because I told her. I just never made a move. I had her original number but we had some minor issues that caused us to stop talking for a while. Why she reached out to give me her new number I honestly couldn't tell you.

[Mariogirl09]

Yea. Means she wants to stay connected but we won't really know for sure.

[Asker]

I treated it as she wants to be friends again. I didn't ask her to hang out

[Mariogirl09]

I think you did well. But if you want to do something dont be afraid

[Asker]

I think I did as well. Some people said I should have asked her to hang out

[Mariogirl09]

That could of been too sudden for you tho as you have no clue why she came back... its okay