Does a girl telling you that her phone number is still the same since we last spoke enough to warrant texting her or calling her?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

I mean, if she’s saying it, sure, but that means you’ll admit to keeping her number from the time you met to now. I’d you’re ok with that, go for it.

[Asker]

I asked her if her number was still the same and she said yes, does this still apply?

[DishLady]

Yeah

[Asker]

When I asked if it's okay if I could text her she didn't respond

[TommyMountainFigure]

Sure, but only if you want to!

[Asker]

How do I know if it's okay to text her?

[TommyMountainFigure]

She clearly made a point of telling you her number hadn't changed.. Why would she have said that if she DIDN'T want you to contact her?

[Asker]

She only said that because I asked her if her number hadn't changed. When I followed up and asked if it was okay if I could text her she didn't respond.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Oh well that's different. In that case no I wouldn't text her!

[Asker]

Exactly why I didn't. To me it made no sense to even confirm if her number was the same if texting wasn't a option

[TommyMountainFigure]

Quite right.

[Asker]

Maybe the follow up message was unnecessary and she was giving me the okay to text her by responding yes to the initial message