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I don't know yet but my best guess at the moment is if I had to estimate I might call/text her at least in a week maybe, more or maybe never call/text her unless I feel like it whoa whoa don't even think about calling me a jerk or insecure allow me to explain if you never call/or text her at all unless you feel like it then she have the optionality to miss you it creates attraction she'll more likely be with you.
Then she sees you with a backbone,she sees him as a challenge she loves challenges and since they want to change a bad guy to be a good man more likely in reality it's impossible but however if you use the tactics the good ones aka the positive ones not the negative ones like the one I named as an example that will help the nice guys,geeks,nerds,nerds and good guys like me out to get dates easily and to our advantage.
And being too nice never creates attraction and yes being too nice kills attraction you'll get friend zone she'll never wanted to be with you she'll never date you until she is either A single mother B.no longer a virgin or C she is pregnant by the bad guy he dumped her for another woman and yes possibly D all of the above.
You women play those games and we learned more and more if we focus on what you do not what you say don't say you don't unless you can proof it so far women these days and age say one thing but respond to opposite for an example you woman say oh I want a sweet guy or I want a good man treat me right.
Then you love that other guy who treats you wrong who push you down see how you respond differently then what you say what you love in a guy and you can call me a geek or a nerd go ahead and yes I admit I am both a nerd since I might share same knowledge as a regular nerd and a geek you know I'm 50/50.
And I collect stuff that I love and I collect stuff that I like and yes sometimes I do research online,ask questions,ask questions on Google,read online books like one of hem I will named how to be alpha male/the game one or the other yes I do read books from Google online and of course sometimes I do research on other different subjects as well.
bottom line is this
Do you want evil bastards,thugs,criminals and all other bad men
do you want a guy who is too nice
do you want a good man
and above all do you want a great man? This is are just some of my research notes so far I've taken and from what I notice going on these days and age and sadly some of women and some of girls if not most of them here in America is being brainwashed.
I ALWAYS call the next day
Frankly I'd be concerned about her not thinking I'm interested, or me being forgotten about on her end...go wait.
So I don't play games and contact her the next day. I see no cons to doing so (feel free to share your differing opinion if you want).
I know what I want (her) and imma show her that I want her by contacting her promptly. :)
Some guys in this situation will not contact you at all. They thought you were cute, got your number but
1. Were really just about casual sex and when you did not go home with them they are over it.
2. Already have a girlfriend but had a great time flirting with you.
3. Sobered up the next day and don't remember you that well or just overall are not feeling it.
4. They just like getting numbers and having the bragging rights to the fact they get hot chicks numbers all the time.
The fastest a guy texted me after a date was like 10 min. after we left. The funny thing is, I really like him (this was a couple months ago and we still see each other) so I didn't think he was being needy or desperate. Typically, if it's a guy I don't like as much or am not sure about, if he texted me right away I would think he was needy, but if I really like the guy, I love when it's right away. Maybe that's just me though.
The games tire me and bore me. I wish guys wouldn't pull the whole oh, I'll wait to get her interested in me thing. If you're interested in me, just talk to me. Let's start a conversation, get to know me as a person.
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Either we have to hit it off right then and there or I wait days or about a week. Why? It's simple. Girls are chased all the time. The ones that don't chase are the ones that the girls are most intrigued by. Girls get calls and texts but don't answer them because the game is over. They figure that if you contact them too soon it seems like you are desperate, have no life, and is no "challenge" to her to stay interesting.
I have a busy life and I have no time to waste. Many guys call or text the girl just to make sure that it's her real number because most of the time it's not. Yes girls still play these games. So if I were to call right after I meet a girl it does seem desperate and clingy. Many girls will give the excuse of "going too fast" later when you do call. Staying a mystery and being a "jerk" turns on girls not being good and reliable.
usually the next day.
if I actually have something to talk to her about or something I wanna ask, idc how long its been.
the whole waiting thing is stupid. if she liked me, she wants to hear from me soon, so if I just text or call her that same day, she should be happy, not weirded out or turned off.
if she is, then she doesn't really like me and that's all I need to know to never text her again.
I try not to text, because that leaves it open for her to play hard to get and not text back or just blow me off. a lot of guys text girls all the time, so if you do that, its easier for her to just blend you in as another orbiter...I call, and when she answers I'm really happy sounding and just see if she wants to hit the bar this weekend.
I'll call her the next day, but I'll send her a text with a compliment in an hour or so.
"You looked so regal in that dress/hat... I'm glad I stopped to talk to you." That sort of thing. I'm glad I picked this time to go to the store. You looked radiant in that dress, and I liked what you told me about the frozen shrimp. You should let me cook it for you. Something personalized to the encounter.
Usually we're going out that night.
C: Other
When I have a reason to. 9/10 times in the past, where I've lead my mind into this mysterious head game of 'whens the right time to call', I've usually been the second-choice as a potential mate. Now that I've got other priorities than women, it seems that they flock in my direction more often than before. So to answer your question more precisely, I don't usually call back unless there's a reason for me TO call e.g. we made plans to swim / etc..
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I don't know. I get around to it eventually. I try not to call her immediately, because too many girls think "oh, he's showing interest, he must be needy or desperate" which is kinda stupid. So I at least wait a day. Maybe two days. But yeah, if you got his number mid week, and he hasn't called by Friday or Saturday, chances are he's not that interested.
5 business days.
You don't want to call immediately, because girls jump to conclusions about you for some reason. You don't want to wait for the cliche 3 days. They'll be expecting it. Women love the "I can take it or leave it" attitude, so you must let them sweat it out a little. If she is angry about this, oh well. There are other girls that will be happy about my phone call.
I usually do it the next day, mid afternoon, ask and she if she would like to get some lunch, that 3 day rule is dumb, and for kids in high school.
I usually tell her I'll call you tonight/tomorrow/ whenever I say because I know she'll be waiting and I don't want to call when it'll be an inconvenience to her
but I wouldn't do it right after unless she said so.
Depends when and where you met her. Also, if I'm asking for your number it's more than likely because I've already made a plan to see you either later that day or tomorrow so I get your number to send exact details.
Why wait?
the next day, or the day after that - between 24 and 48 hours after meeting her. that way it doesn't come across as really desperate, but at the same time doesn't appear like I'm trying to play games with her.
I would probably do it that night to see if she has any plans or the next day. I don't really believe in this three day rule, as I see not many other guys do either.
Right when I get home or in the car. I call and say I have a bad sense of time because my mother dropped me on my head one too many times and then I pick right up where I left off with her
I guess I'm not one for games. If you're interested you're interested and I show it so id expect you to as well. How else would you form a bond if you don't equally put forth the effort instead of pussyfooting around? Usually its 2 days max from the time you give or get a number from someone. Its just wasting someone's time if you get or give info and then don't use it
Call her the next day. I'm a girl..if I give a guy my number after we hit it off, I'd want him to call me soon. :)
Shortly after or the next day. If out of the bar, maybe just a "nice to meet you" or something simple. If she doesn't respond quickly, you know she's not really interested...
I always call 5-9 days later. Works great. Before I'm called every name in the book...I can explain if you would like.
I say no more than two days. If a guy is interested, he will make time to make a little or call or send a little text message.
It depends. it took me a few days to a week to call her back, depending on the situation. But I will never call the next day.
Easiest I got a text from guy is 10 min.lol I like that
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