Girls, For bi, pan, etc. women, are your requirements and standards for men to attract you tougher? If so, why is that?

[Jerry_Jay]

There are obviously many women who identify in different ways, however, it seems that many women might be less strict, more open, when it comes to dealing with other women. It also seems like some simply like women more In general.

Like on a website called Fetlife, For example, the women are very flirty with each other and comment on each other's pictures quite frequently, but it seems like many men rarely get any kind of female attention and/or some men have to go through a lot more just to meet a woman, such as their opening emails having to fit a certain standard, etc.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The only women who don’t have high standards for men are the incredibly small group of women obsessed with impressing men and men exclusively. Every woman who’s queer, or likes herself, or has a community of friends usually has higher standards. Though “higher” here is speaking with EXTREME relativity.

[Jerry_Jay]

Do they have equally high standards for women? If not, why not?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I can really only speak for myself and generally I don’t HAVE to hold women to the same standard because they rise far above it on their own

[Jerry_Jay]

Oh, all right. It seems like a lot of women expect men to be strong, confident, tall, be vulnerable, but not in a way that makes them look, weak, make a certain amount of money, etc. So you are saying that a lot of women naturally do all that?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

It’s not “natural” as much as just social. Yes, emotional intellect is a very attractive trait and often supersedes physical traits, ambition works for some, not all, money is relative. Honestly, everything I just said is extremely relative and should not be used as a blanket statement