How do I just stop having feelings for anyone ever?

[Anonymous]

it just brings stress and insecurity into my life

[Anonymous]

To stop unwanted feelings, focus on self-compassion, build self-worth by highlighting strengths, set firm boundaries, diversify your social fulfillment, and reframe negative thoughts. Be kind to yourself and recognize your own value; avoid comparison with others. Identify and build on your positive qualities and accomplishments. Spend time apart from the person if possible to let feelings fade. See the other person with more context (their life, family) rather than just your feelings, and consider potential consequences.

Good luck.

[LiamS95]

I'm sorry that's what you have experienced. If you ever need to or want to talk about it feel free to dm me.

[Asker]

dont u have any advice?

[LiamS95]

No I wouldn't want to help someone to stop ever from having feelings for someone else forever. I'd rather address what was the cause of stress & insecurity as that is not normal in a relationship when two persons have real and true feelings for each other.

[RandomGirl42]

It's not loving that brings stress and insecurity into your life. It's stress and insecurity. I will never be afraid to love. That's the only advice I got. Love. Love just 'cuz u wanna' love. 💖

[Nikki1989]

The true human (not AI chatbot) answer is that you cannot selectively "mute" romantic feelings without also muting your joy, empathy, and connection to the world.

[Asker]

why?

[serious]

I don't think there can ever be a clear cut answer to this. I don't think anyone can actually tell you a way to go about this. Those are your feelings so you would know how to deal with that.

[MemeSupreme]

if you notice yourself starting to like someone, then create distance and try to avoids situations that can cause them

[Asker]

wdym distance?

[msc545]

Become a racist and a Trump supporter. The only feelings they ever have are rage at people who aren't white.

[Iron_Man]

Don’t date until your 25 enjoy your life