Ever had a whole social group disappear?

[Anonymous]

i realise ghostings involving a single person are relatively common and i wouldn't put much though into that but an entire social group? i used to see these girls at there work but it was mostly during the summer when they worked there but some of them i haven't seen them once since there last day of work there which would of been late aug ( labour day ) and they live in the same area so pretty sure they've been back home since then

the whole thing is starting to weird me out by now , other years i do recall seeing some of them at Thanksgiving or x mas but not this year , they just like disappeared

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4 mo

still haven't seen these girls , seems like they won't reappear until May and only if they return to there previous summer jobs they'd had in the past here. also not sure if it will be awkward or not if they return , perhaps they'll act like nothing happened or it will be weird i honest have no clue or they won't return at all and perhaps i never see them again

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3 mo

still haven't seen this group of girls yet , wondering if any re appear at Easter weekend? as some might be back home if not next chance would be May as thats when restaurant i saw them at re opens at full staffing levels for summer

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2 mo

this group of girls has yet to return to there place of employment and i haven't really seen any of them anywhere else so not sure what is going on. i saw one of them briefly at Easter but we didn't even like talk but yet to see the rest of them and not really sure what it will be like when and if they return to place i normally see them at

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That was their summer job, they were in school, they decided to work somewhere else the resident creep wasn’t going to see them. Get over it.

[Asker]

i don't know if they have other jobs or not , as i haven't seen them since , one does work as a dance instructor but obviously i've never been to her work but she was planning to come back this summer so might see her again

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

She does not want to see you. Take the hint, old man

[Asker]

i think she might be annoyed that i still talk to one of her girlfriend's , she's friends with this girl who works as a cashier at a store here and i talk to her often but i haven't seen her since Oct , she worked a bit later than the others than disappeared

[Asker]

seen the girlfriend's recently like this winter and such , we get along and such

[Asker]

not sure if my friendship with this other girl that they all know is the reason for the ghosting or not

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

You assume too much standing in their lives

[Asker]

perhaps but seems like this odd multiple choice question ,
1- they ghosted cause i noticed they all had nice boobs and wanted to sleep with them
2- they ghosted cause i visit that other girl they know at different business , note she doesn't even have nice boobs but still pretty and were jealous i liked her more
3- all of the above
4- they didn't ghost me just haven't seen them since for unrelated reasons

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

None of those options make you look like the good guy

[Asker]

we might never know why they disappeared i assume they'll reappear this spring /summer if they still work there , perhaps they'll talk to me but i doubt they care to explain the absence

[exitseven]

There was a whole group of people I knew in college that I thought would be in my life forever. I never see any of them.

[Asker]

yeah college can be like that , people often move on once its over and no longer roommates or have classes together.

these girls lived in my hometown and worked at this restaurant , its busier during the summer but still open during the winter , one of the summer servers i saw briefly at x mas break and she did say hi to me but the rest have like disappeared entirely and some i haven't seen in 6 months now

[Nikki1989]

Nope.