Are ditzy right brained girls "hotter" than the rest?

[lightbulb27]

I've noticed this pattern with guys seeing "something" in these women. They can't find their keys, walk straight, don't get jokes, etc.. I knew one that didn't know where she was, couldn't navigate. But she had other gifts, so her husband handled it. Maybe some guys "feel" better with such women, want to save them or they feel in control?

After a while, they discover the reality of these "brains" and it's quite frustrating to learn to deal with. I think you know the types. It's reality, they are more right brain and emotional.

It's not terrible and all have value, just something to realize when selecting a mate their brain works differently.

Maybe they initially make you crazy and then later on... they make you nuts?

What's your experience?

So yea, I left my keys in the refrigerator, they are safe there.

I'm not saying I've never left cheese in the towel drawer. It's not all about females... things happen.

[DishLady]

Yeah, they are. They just look ethereally happy all the time. Everything is magical or sweet or cute. Those of us who one can say are more "grounded" and take an extra moment to crack a smile or are preoccupied with real world affairs that these gals can't wrap their minds around may be ATTRACTIVE to guys, but the guy will always take the more "blonde" option out for a spin before considering the more level-headed counterpart.

[lightbulb27]

lot of truth there, til they wisen up. there's something attractive about opposite. mho

[emeraldsaphire]

As a ditzy right brained girlie I'm offended lol. I may lose my keys when they are in my hand and walk into walls 10 times a day, but I always get jokes XP

My husband say's I'm cute and he likes helping me out. I'm also really good at helping him with hs emotions and helping him unwind.

[lightbulb27]

you win MHO!!:) you probably have amazing intuition and ability to emotionally connect!

[emeraldsaphire]

lol yay!

[live2dance25]

I’ve had one show interest in me and it was super hard to even get her to meet on time, let alone remember her apartment keys, or remember the restaurant we were going to meet at. After a while I got tired of waiting outside her apartment for up to an hour while she searched for her keys to lock the door. Multiple car accidents she got in, and didn’t even remember what she hit (like seriously?). I ended it shortly after that. Hot was irrelevant, no matter how pretty she was a danger to everyone around her and especially her neighbors (leaving stoves on, forgetting her dog outside). I hope she’s doing better, now that I think back, she might’ve even been on drugs. No thanks.

[lightbulb27]

Good call, your sanity preserved! Some really are like that without meds.

[live2dance25]

I truly wish her the best, I just know long term it wouldn’t have worked. Last time I saw her she had me zip tie the bumper on her car and when I asked what happened, she said she didn’t remember at all. Either was super high or untreated ADHD but getting help is what she needed, not being on the road looking to go out and party. The alcohol and likely drugs didn’t help.

[Anonymous]

This is the logic behind the 'slightly autistic' requests on dating profiles. Here is my perspective as a girl with adhd and autism.

Women with adhd are highly intuitive, spontane and emotional. I think some men find that attractive because these traits are considered 'feminine'. Besides, its one of the more common tropes written by men: the manic pixie dream girl. This trope explains the mask I've adopt to fit in more easily. I appear bubbly, accomodating and fully focused on the person I interact with (to read social cues and respond accurately). Men are not used to this kind of attention and are immediately smitten.

Autistic women can be naive, aloof and have that childlike wonder. This can attract men who like to be in control or even men with more sinister motivations.

These are just my observations of the men who find themselves drawn to me.

[NathanDavis]

in my experience...

the "hottest" woman I've ever met, also happened to be the most smartest as well... a redhead, and brilliant AF

and she was very much so "both sides of her brain" alike and then some more too... way above the average intelligent people but also very free of these thing ever becoming a burden

as difficult as it could be at some point... she was mostly in control of it, and not slaved to either side... the emotional or the intellectual one

truly a wonder...

as for the other, wonderful women in my life... pretty much the same, quite balanced people really and not half brained, lol

[RavVid]

I can see it being cute initially.

Typically women are more emotional reasoners but that is true of liberals in general whilst conservatives are cognititive reasoners.

It is not going to bother me if my girl can't find the car but it is going to bother me if she uses emotional reasoning why I am at fault over something despite there being no causal connection.

Regardless of whether a girl is left brained or right brained, I don't see any girl not using loosely coupled emotional reasoning to prove you are crap.

[MissSunshine2]

Being soft and emotional doesn’t necessarily make a woman ditzy or stupid. But I think I know what you’re getting at…you mean the percentage of bimbo types that carry on over silly things and don’t understand anything. I suspect the ditzy women make up for lack of intelligence in other areas (in the bedroom and by making the men they’re with feel special and loved). Maybe some men find it cute. Others still don’t regard them as ditzy, being naturally dumb themselves.

[lightbulb27]

Some have brains... if they use them. The initial response is not to. I've seen this in various women. I think it's a matter of how their right brain dominates, and emotions rule.
Frankly, I've done that at times, saying ridiculous things... anyone could be like that, but I've focused on women.

[MissSunshine2]

I disagree. I’m very emotional, as is my mum and we both have high IQS (we’ve been iq tested)

[lightbulb27]

Brains are complex. its not ID, it's ability to focus that brain... possibly the interconnection, if one side overpoewrs the other. II know very little about this, it's fascinating and complex. But I've seen some on the extreme.

[MissSunshine2]

Me too 🙂

[Nikki1989]

What a load of pretentious wankery!

[OlderAndWiser]

Well, the girl in that picture looks quite hot!

[serious]

Maybe yes. Especially for some men because it would make it a bit easier for men to take charge.

[Anonymous]

You can realize that the girl is hot at first sight.

[lightbulb27]

AI girls have more electrons!

[Opinion Owner]

I've seen similar girls in the gym.

[Shy-boy53]

They are fun to be around , and make us smile a lot

[blackeagle007]

You maybe right. But everyone is clumsy. I definitely am

[Anonymous]

Some women can be hot if they seem the whole package of looks, brains, and more 😀

[MrChinaski]

They both have their charms.

[LC75LC71]

The booty tells all..