I 100% believe so. She usually has an ego, entitled and not that great of a person the hotter the girl is. It’s a sad fact of life.
No one can ever be perfect I guess
I'm going to super-duper-strongly disagree.
I've known a ton of hot girls over the course of my life. Like a disproportionate number of good-looking girls. I've known quite a few very well. In my experience, in general, they've been excellent people. At least as likely to be "good" or "kind" or "nice" (or however you want to put it) as anybody else.
In fact, I think that some of them feel a need to be EXTRA nice, specifically because they're aware that the stereotype you're accusing "hot girls" of here... exists. Some (not all) of them feel the need to overcompensate and show everyone how "they're still nice" even though they're hot.
There are certainly hot-girls who are human garbage (as well as hot guys, and ugly girls and alright-looking girls and guys who are this way too).
I'm sure you don't feel this way for no reason. I'm sure you've had experiences with particular "hot girls" that have led you to this (I'm telling ya...) false conclusion. I don't know what those experiences were. I don't know if you were mistreated or if you're someone who... acted like an idiot and deservedly were treated like one by hot girls. I'm not going to try and tell you "you're wrong". I guess I can't say that, because I can only base my own views on my own experience. But what you said here is completely and totally at-odds with my entire life's experience. I urge you to remain open to the notion that you're wrong about this. I really think you are.
As I'm reminiscing on all the various hot girls... who were excellent fucking people, and remembering people who were important to me in the past, there's this one girl Paulina, who stands out because It's just such a distinct memory.
Like I said... there IS a stereotype about hot girls being stuck-up bitches. I remember exactly my impression of this girl the very first day I saw her (this is in the 10th grade).
She walked in, and FUCK... she was beautiful. Just like that over-the-top "are you even real?"--type of attractive. Like she is the epitome of the hot girl. I literally remember thinking to myself "That girl looks like SUCH a bitch. Did somebody fucking air-brush this girl's face in real-life?"
I remember that so clearly because I told her about it a couple of months later, after getting to know her a bit.
I was friends with Paulina for years, and she loved bringing up "hey... remember when you thought I was a bitch"? With a big smile on her face.
Because, dude... this girl Paulina was one of the kindest, sweetest human beings I've ever come across. That's still true several decades later.
Paulina is just such an extreme example that it sticks out in my mind.
Most hot girls aren't quite so extreme (neither as hot, nor as kind-hearted).
Nevertheless, it made me consciously question that stereotypical assumption for the first time in an overt way. I assumed Paulina was a shitty person without really THINKING about whether that was fair or right or whatever. This made me think about it.
I already knew a shitload of hot girls (Not because I'm awesome, there are reasons for this that I'm omitting because of how fucking long this is already) who were cool...
And I consciously decided to try to catch myself if I made that assumtion about someone.
I'm so glad for that. Because so many of the excellent people I've been lucky enough to know-well happen to have been both hot and female. I can't imagine what I would have missed-out-on if I had operated under the false-assumption you're making here.
Despite whatever experiences have led you to feel the way you feel. I urge you to remain open to the possibility that you're wrong (for your own sake). I genuinely think that you're dead-wrong. 🙂
, No I think girls that are average are worse , they are usually the ones that bitch and complain all the time because they aren’t receiving the attention like the hot girls do , they feel insecure within themselves and have a hard time being told they are beautiful if someone calls them beautiful , usually average girls have very low self esteem about themselves so they are drawn to attention, cuz they seek validation from others , to make themselves feel better about themselves , and will probably be more drawn to cheat if they receive the attention they are craving , Hot girls don’t seek that much validation cuz they are used to getting attention a lot , so they usually don’t take shit from no one , she might come off as a bitch but she is just protecting herself from all the assholes she encountered that are just trying to stick their dick in her , or all the average girls that are talking shit on her cuz they are jealous , so if you land a hot girl the best thing to do for her is be confident and know she is going home with you , Girls want a man to look up to she doesn’t want a weak insecure coward that is going to get jealous every time a guy flirts with her , An average girl will love getting flirts from another guy a hot girl will say sorry I already have my man
No, and I believe it is asinine, small minded, and bigoted to assume that. NO two people are exactly the same, most of my best friends are incredibly beautiful, and they are the sweatiest, kindest people I know. I also know some extremely outwardly beautiful women who are complete bitches, but I also know a hell of a lot more women who are not outwardly beautiful who are also complete bitches! Making wild, overly broad assumptions about any group of people is petty, small-minded, ignorant, and bigoted! It also happens to be wrong, and it does not surprise me one bit that you would be to ashamed to post this under your real username!
It can depend. Yes some that think they are act like bitches, while some are actually really nice. My male friend likes to tell me that people get points for attractive and personality. He told me I was a 9. I’m hoping the guy I like will come around and no I’m not like oh yes he will come to me, no I’m saying I’m hoping he does. Fingers crossed as we’d be soooo cute together.
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Nah. Insecure girls, regardless of their physical beauty are the worst.
She has a lot of power with her looks. More power than her male equivalent.
I want to point that out because many women falsely believe a good looking guy is just as privileged as a good looking girl. Absolutely not true at all. A good looking guy literally gets a 200 meter head start in the 1600 meter dating race. A good looking girl gets a 800 meter head start (halfway). She literally has to crawl and be completely worthless to get passed up by lesser attractive women when it comes to dating. So it’s NOT okay to be nasty to a good looking guy thinking he will have immediate options around the corner the same way a pretty girl does. It’s NOT that simple.
Anyway she can choose what to use or abuse her power (if she even acknowledges it). She can use it fairly and date guys on par with her. Or she can abuse the living shit out of it to exploit men for friéndzone bs, make easy money through IG/only fans, be a gold digger, get leniency on bullshit behavior (even criminal behavior), etc.
Attractive women do have some unique challenges. They are constantly being hit on and have to watch out for aggressive men (including stalkers). They also got to deal with jealousy from other women. People often think they are of lesser intelligence and just use their looks to get by too. That’s insulting to an attractive yet smart young woman
But overall the benefits far outweigh the drawbacks for pretty women. They can become famous much more quickly with mediocre talents. Even people I can’t stand like AOC would of never gotten a huge IG following, be on the front cover of Rolling Stone, etc if she was unattractive. She complains about “inequality” and yet she’s a huge recipient of pretty privilege
Anyway there are good hearted pretty women too (unicorns). But it all depends on what they choose to do with their looks.
I had 2 hot female friends, tall-ish and looked like models. I was the duff, don’t mind me. The thing is that they didn’t know they were hotties, and they dated some of the ugliest men you’d imagine.
I THINK NO. With how much social media and photoshop there is today. Some girls really can’t tell that they’re Baddies. Only if everyone around them is spoiling them and putting them on pedestals. The thing is my two hot friends were complete geeks and nerds. Always playing videosgames and into comic books. That’s why they had me as a their duff friend lol.
But that’s MY personal experience. I can’t speak for every BADDIE or MODEL, or what they’re attracted to or not.
I’m sure that we can all agree that people are attracted to attractive people, wether you’re guy or girl. You want someone who’s appealing and arousing.
why my two model friends dated ugly, bald fat guys was beyond me. 🤷🏻♀️
I think you may be referring to the women that have to put up with with cat-calls and idiots that don't know how to approach a women properly.
Put yourself in her shoes, she likely hot on all the time, gets all kinds of lewd comments in a day and when she doesn't respond or says something the guy doesn't like, the guy calls her a bitch.
The hot girl may seem snobby or defensive, because she is a product of her surroundings, putting up with a long list a-holes over the years.
If you can show her some dignity and not because she is hot, but bc she is woman, then she would likely drop the first line of defense and be very friendly.
This is so funny. There are women who are really shallow and mean. But that isn't limited to hot women. Then on the flip side, there are beautiful women who are incredibly low on self-esteem. Who are easier to abuse, manipulate, etc? I remember back in the day when I was just a dog. And how surprising it would be to have women I was cheating on be looking for me when I had ghosted them. They would be calling me. If I made the mistake of giving them my address, I literally had some who would come to my apartment and sit outside watching to see if I was coming and going.
I used to remember thinking. . ."these are good looking women, why don't they just get on with their lives and find some dude who will treat them better?"
But that is not how women are made. It doesn't matter what they look like.
I don't believe that to be a fact.
The caveat is being hot get's you more attention... And an overabundance of attention usually leads to an inflated ego and a sense of entitlement that you were describing.
But being attractive is not the reason why that happens, it all has to do with the way you are educated and the kind of person you are. It's also a generalization because some of the hottest women iv'e met were also the most insecure as crazy as it sounds.
It also has to do with what kind of society you live in... You would be suprised to be in places of the world which are poorer where women that could objectively be super models are not as scarce as in other societies and simply don't behave the same and don't have the same mentality as you would see in America. Further proof it has nothing to do with beauty as an item and everything to do with people, places etc etc
No I disagree. I think that the girls who are populair pretty are worse, not the actual pretty girls. With popular pretty I mean the girls that are pretty because they are popular. They are very stereotypical and mean because their ego is high due to popularity. But in reality most of the times those girls aren't even that pretty. They look basic (nothing wrong with that, but just not really special) and boring. Actual pretty girls are girls who have something special to them, like a feature that makes them look different. Those girls are usually very kind.
Most worse girls are often mid. Pretty enough to have an ego, but not pretty enough to be reallyyyy pretty. Actual pretty girls usually had a glow up in life and weren't always that pretty. They don't have an ego, because they are still humble from the time they weren't as pretty
The majority of my opinion will be on your side on this. But just like anything else, it's not gonna be 100% accurate. There are some white buffalos that your brain will struggle to make sense of. They are down to earth, I've met a couple that were actually legit funny and perfect 10s. All around perfect. But you're more likely to hit the Powerball numbers than wife one of the white buffalos.
Most super hot chicks have never really needed a reason to be nice to everyone. They have never really struggled because someone will always bail them out. To me, it doesn't matter how hot you are, your probably bat shit crazy.
Truly depends on the girl. The hottest girl I met in real life was in my first dojo when I started martial arts. She was better than me in almost every way, but was very humble. She even helped me once in a fight where I had no business winning and was outnumbered. When I asked her about it, she was genuinely just happy to help.
I've come across plenty of hot girls who are truly amazing, sweet and helpful people. I would say the number of stupid hot girls vs. the ones who are pretty good are about even.
been a while since I’ve been around hot girls, in my early 20s I worked at Red Robin and I don't know if the cute girls there were mad at me or just didn’t like me but I was never a talker and never spoke to them so they always called me a faggot but I sometimes caught them looking at me when they weren’t with their pack of friends and would then look away quickly some even would bend over with their asses in my direction while I was working or they would preen themselves. So hot chicks can be very verbally abusive and petty
Eeeeehhhh, not quite the same for all. I'm sure some hot girls are like celebrities with the mindset they can do no wrong. But those who are hot are hot by genetics. They look good but they're just livin' not like a hot girl you find on the streets. Get wha i mean?
I spent like 10 minutes trying to find a nice way to phrase this but I couldn't... So fuck it.
According to your post EVERY "hot girl" you've met is bitch to you, and with 3 decades of life experience I feel pretty safe in saying attractiveness is not an accurate way to estimate someone's personality, the only other common denominator I see in this equation is you. Do with that knowledge what you will.
Plenty of hot girls are great. People just like to demonize them to feel better about themselves. And obviously, some hot girls are just awful, like Giselle Bundchen and Amber Heard and most if not all OnlyFans girls, sex workers, strippers, etc. But I just met a hot waitress yesterday who is perfectly fine. You just have to figure out where to find them.
I think it depends on a girl´s self confidence and social skills. I´ve had problems with beautiful, average or ugly women in the past. But none of the problems concerned beauty or physical aspects.
There was always either communication or a difference in character the problem.
Depends on the woman and you. I don't want to go around sleeping with everyone woman i find, so i think equally of them as bad. No matter how hot she is or not. Trust me women have loads of trauma and no one is perfect. Wanna see the bad in them and you can only see the bad.
Generalizations never work, but there is something about human psicology to consider here. Many women and men, who have a certain wordly recognized beauty get used to getting what they want, when they want it and how they want it. The longer this happens and continuous, the more egocentristic and narcisistic these people become, which in the end, makes for a "worse person" type of situation. Especially with women, nowadays, social media validation in the early 20s makes them fall into this cathegory. Because their looks are enough for a man to drop everything for her, then thsese women never learn how to be an actually likable person. Again, this applies for both men and women, but in a greater percentage for women. And there is a lot more of psicological matters to dig in with this, but to answer your question, this is what is useful.
It all depends on what you observed! And from my findings it's about as random/even as I expected it to be. Looks didn't have anything to do with it. They were either just being a bitch or not!
Know that the bad ones do not represent the rest, okay?
It's very generalized statement to which i disagree being hot or attractive has nothing to do with someone having arrogance It's just we like to believe so due to social conditioning
People who are insecure are the ones who are mean and arrogant because they need to feel good about themselves by putting others down
I don't think so. I have been out with several beautiful ladies who were sweethearts and easy to be with. I have also been out with beautiful ladies that were the exact opposite. I have been out with some ladies that really not that good-looking physically, but were smart and articulate. I have been with some that were not that good looking who to put it plainly were 100% (redacted)!
Not necessarily, you Better off with her why? Because she is used to attention and chances she isn’t gonna sleep with just anyone like some other girls who do it to prove they can get any guy lol.
If they have Shitty attitude you are a lucky guy I mean do I would prefer some maintenance rather than an over friendly attention grabber unless she has Karen syndrome I’m all in.
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