Why don’t any men interest me anymore, like I’ve lost interest in all of them?

[Anonymous]

[Master_Debator]

I just saw new stats that under a certain age, basically 1 in 3 women don't like men at all. The theory that was thrown my way is something I'm pondering and perhaps you can help me out on that theory.

The theory is that your age group was pretty young when social media became a major thing. Was there exposure to the worst of the worst of men through that? Like were the pedos, perverts and total creeps flooding your DM's or PM's at a young age... like older guys that are all nasty just doing it? Did you deal with basically grooming behavior when you were coming to age?

I don't know, 1) I'm too old to know (that aspect didn't really exist when I was that age), 2) I'm male, and 3) I do know females get waaaaay more creepy messages and interactions than I would ever go (another statistic fact).

I accept you probably have lost interest in men... I'm just really curious as to what elements have made you that way. Is there any truth to the theory I heard today... in your opinion?

[1WildBeatlejuice]

I’m leaning toward he could be right about the creepy people and guys you being female you are more likely to be hit on by guys especially if you advertise you are young or good looking so if you put your age at 99 and find a picture of someone who is not attractive for your avatar you are less likely to be hit on by pervs put a picture of one of the golden girls on your profile or even a guy who is not attractive 😂😂 sorry I am a guy too but he might be right about people giving you a bad experience and leaving a bad taste in your mouth making you want to distance yourself from guys we are not all the same I promise I myself am a animal but I try not to be a pig if that makes sense

[Master_Debator]

@1WildBeatlejuice I like the point you made about the advertising. When I first came on this site I had a shirtless picture and I got all sorts of creepy messages... and I'm a dude. Eventually I changed my profile picture because I got tired of it and I haven't received one of those messages ever since.

[1WildBeatlejuice]

Something must be turning you off or making them repulsive to you if I’m correct this is an answer that you need what is causing this …. I am a guy and honestly I feel like there are great numbers of guys that are pigs I feel that there are great number of gals that are equally as bad in other ways we are all people none of us are perfect we can never see ourselves as others can we who care can only try there are some who care about nothing other than themselves and this is sad that we have to live with these we all have needs of all sorts and it can be easy for one to not see something and misjudge someone so we have to be careful with this I know I have made mistakes in not seeing things right in front of my face I think it’s good you are questioning this and I believe talking about it with people who you trust might help you find your answers I don’t think anybody can give you the answer to this question they might can help you explore and help you to find it but I do think you will have to find the answer to this I believe only you know this answer people that know you and the ones you can confide in might help you find or see the answer but I think that is about all they can do that and lend you support

[Nikki1989]

90% of them are trash, but if you are lucky enough to meet one of the good ones, they are golden.

[HighValue]

You are likely too easily influenced by liberal lies and propaganda that is often very negative about men and you have been exposed to that your whole life.

[Staximus]

I’m not you, I can’t answer that question. Are you depressed? When people are depressed, they often lose interest in most things. Maybe the guys around you aren’t your type anymore.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Eat a steak. You'll be better in a week or so.

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe you’re lesbian or asexual

[ChicoFromThe305]

You turned lesbian I suppose 😂

[888theGreat]

maybe you are gay

[Anonymous]

Maybe you're GAY.

[Mariogirl09]

Are you gay?

[Mike_Hum]

Why is that?