Is it rude concert etiquette to sit on my boyfriend’s shoulders and block others’ view?

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Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

I feel like everyone gets it. Like most guys want to be the dude with the girl on his shoulders, probably a lot of woman want to be on some guy they like shoulders. I just get annoyed when it's blocking my view for longer than 10 -20 minutes.

Like alright guys I paid to get here too haha😭

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Not if you are showing your tits lol

Natasha1995 · Accepted Answer

In a crowded concert hall, yes. During an open air event with loads of space, of course not. As with all things, common sense should prevail.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

Nah, not really. That is lightweight compared to other things I have seen.

David318578 · Answer

Depends, if it was a rock concert then girls sitting on shoulders where flashing their tits to the band. At least thats how it was in the 80s and 90s.

ShellyB · Answer

I don’t think so bc it’s probably one of the only ways you get a good view (I am making some assumptions that I think are usually true in these situations but not always like, if he can hold you on his shoulders for long you are prob fairly small) and I also think a girl like this is easy to look around. I did this once and didn’t get any mean looks or comments that I was aware of. It can also be a good relationship thing. JMO!

WindAtMyBack · Answer

It depends on the concert and the venue. In an outdoor concert with plenty of room, I think its OK. If it's shoulder to shoulder then it's not OK. In that case, I don't even think a large hat is OK.

AviatorTom · Answer

That would be rude if it was for more than one song in the concert. Only exception would be if everyone around you was doing the same. Regardless, your boyfriend's neck would like it. 😉

LiamS95 · Answer

yes I would think that is inappropriate behavior to be blocking another paying fans view

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Would you think it was rude if someone in front of you was doing that?

exitseven · Answer

Indoors with assigned seats you can do it to just take a quick photo but to do it fot an ectended period of time I say no.

menina · Answer

I think it is. The other people also paid their ticket, so they deserve to see the concert.

Crimsyjo · Answer

I wouldn't hate on you/person doing it but I wouldn't like it. I do think it's inconsiderate.

Master_Debator · Answer

It's pretty much manditory that you show your tits... then it becomes acceptable concert etiquette.

XXblack88 · Answer

If it's preventing others from seeing then yes it's very rude. When at events just be mindful of other around you.

msc545 · Answer

That is quite rude, and you should not do it.

Billlewis · Answer

Only if you're directly in front of the stage, in my opinion.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Yeah, if I was sat behind you, I'd be fucking pissed! ONE SONG! I'll give you ONE song! An obscure one

Iron_Man · Answer

They’re going to get mad at you very mad and might pull you off. Be very careful

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes. People pay to a see a performance, not the back and head of someone else.

Jeff51 · Answer

Not right that people pay money and can't see it.

AgentG111 · Answer

50/50 up until they tell you to put her down because of safety reasons.

Smegskull · Answer

Depends on what you are wearing. Some things would count as blocking my view, othet things would be improving the view.

Sunrising · Answer

Probably, but if you are at the back of the crowd it doesn't matter.

RRT_7511 · Answer

Yea it is… unless you’re at a rave or something

RedInnocent69 · Answer

At a concert, yes. At an outdoor festival, no.

NathanDavis · Answer

to some, yes...  the ones behind you

slatyb · Answer

Yes, it absolutely is.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

The whole show. Yes, a few songs now

loveslongnails · Answer

You know it is.

Xawyx-2 · Answer

Maybe it's a bit rude.

soe11 · Answer

Personally I don't think so.

Brady · Answer

Don't do it 4 long.  Is that girl u?

Likes2drive · Answer

Probably yeah

dougeats · Answer

nah I think its pretty hot tbh!

888theGreat · Answer

yes , I would yell :"get a room"

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

I would think so but folks do it

Nice222 · Answer

I always loved that. It is perfectly ok

CubaPirate · Answer

Absolutely 100% out if order

FenixG45 · Answer

Depends if you're disturbing or blocking others

nothingtosee · Answer

YES!

askthis56 · Answer

It s not bad. Hot

Summeroflove · Answer

Yes.

Celticwolf78 · Answer

If you can't see it's ok

Zionne · Answer

hahaha you're fine

dudeinohio · Answer

Yes it is.

StevenMcGarrett · Answer

Yes.

fish5505_87 · Answer

Yes.

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