If your boyfriend lets other girls sit on his lap, do you think it's right or wrong?

[Anonymous]

If your boyfriend lets other girls sit on his lap when he's at a party without me there?

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Seriously? I'd say that unless you very specifically arranged for it, and/or you two have an agreement that specifically states that you would be OK with that, then it's absolutely wrong. SOME people might say it's not cheating. SOME people might think it's pushing it. I think it's just far enough over the line to be wrong. I'm against it. But hey, that's my opinion.

Maybe you're OK with that, maybe you're not, but if you have a problem with that, I think you need to have a word with him. Lay down the rules. Tell him what is and is not OK, and if this isn't OK with you, tell him now, because if you haven't given him permission for that kind of stuff, he should naturally assume it's not OK. He should know better.

So yeah, if you want give him shit. I think he has it coming.

[Asker]

Your right! And no I'm not okay with it at all..He is woman crazy and he doesn't want JUST ME he wants all of them.

[Gone_But_Not_Lost]

Yeah, see, now that's not cool. That's not cool at all.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't classify it as right or wrong. I would say it's a terrible idea if he wants to be with his girlfriend long-term.

[Anonymous]

That's wrong. If he is letting girls sit on his lap, the next thing he will do is start touching them or kissing and will think that's normal... You need to have a talk. Sort out your differences.

[THChowder]

WHAT THE F*** FOR?!

No, no, no, and no.

That's just asking for trouble.

[Karola]

Wrong, even if you were there, still wrong.

[Michaelmwm19]

I honestly don't know which one is more disrespectful, doing it behind her back or in front of her. But are wrong and disrespectful for a fact though.

He obviously is getting some sort of pleasure from it.

[Karola]

Yeah agree. Just disrespectful and wrong.

[Anonymous]

Wrong.