If she doesn't party, drink, smoke, or do drugs?

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty conservative but I have friends that do these things, I just don't do it with them or I don't chill with them when they're doing it but it seems like a lot of the time when guys find out I don't like to party or drink in particular they stop talking to me and makes me wonder if being conservative makes me seem boring? I'm not going to change but I'm just wondering?

[peace-love-couture]

Yes because she's obviously not the party girl...

But, I think it's fine to have those standards. I don't drink for personal reasons...I mean, I do on New Years Eve and since I'll be 18 by New Years Eve this year I plan on drinking a little. I don't smoke cigarettes either. Depending on your definition of drugs, I don't do drugs.

Anyhoo, I don't need weed or alcohol to have fun and no one should. Weed is just good to chill and relax every now and then which is why I think it's stupid when people smoke when they're stressed, it's much more fun when you're already stress free and ready to chill.

Drinking is whatever also, but again I don't do it for personal reasons.

If that's who you are then don't worry about it. People who base fun off of drinking and drugs generally have no idea of what fun is. Now if you're conservative and boring, that's a different story.

[Leya7]

I am conservative type,maybe social norm will consider me boring because I reject negative lifestyle like random sex with many guys, I don't agree with same sex relationship, I refuse drug and most of all, I have a solid foundation of my belief. But I drink, I love wine and I don't mind of small percent of alcohol but I make sure I am not drunk and do stupid things. I prefer in healthy social party but I am not clubbing type of girl, I don't play game like fooling around people's feeling;I am honest with friendship with the guys and girls.I say no if I am not interested and leave if I were forced. I love broad social-networking, I prefer international world-wide but I know what to do if something went wrong.

[Leya7]

And I am not smoking because it bad for the lung.

[Stacyzee]

People that are in the age group of 18-26 love to go out on the weekends and do those things with their friends. When you approach your late 20s to early 30s that is when people usually calm down on the partying, drinking, and smoking. I guess some people may consider you boring because you don't typically have the same interests as people your age do.

[linguatango]

First of all, I just want to say that I admire your not partying, drinking, smoking, or doing drugs. =)

"Boring" is relative. What one person sees as boring, another see as intriguing.

I don't think you're boring.

But aren't you bored of hanging around people who think you're boring? =P

[iwish46]

I'm sorry to say, but you might be considered boring. But that's OK because I would be considered boring as well =). I would prefer to date someone who doesn't do any of the things and I would only consider you boring if you only wanted to do the same exact thing every single day.

[Rizzle]

not really.. it's always cool to see girls at parties even if they aren't drinking or anything, but I would actually prefer to date a girl that doesn't party/drink/smoke/drug.. given that I'm looking for a SERIOUS relationship rather than just a fun relationship ;)

[Kangajay]

people don't see you boring just because of some certain things you do, it's more the way you think and talk. Is a retard who party, drink and smoke considered as interesting? I don't think so. Good on you for not destroying yourself. Those guys who stopped talking to you are stupid, you are better off without them.

[beerY33]

to people who don't know how to have fun beyond drinking and smoking, you might be boring, but I don't think those are the kinds of people you should strive to be accepted by.

[Ugliness]

Actually I love my wife.

We don't party or smoke. And the only drugs we do are prescription which I'd gladly do without.

As for drinking, we do on occasion but I can take it or leave it.

[idontgetit123]

I wouldn't mind a girl who doesn't smoke or do drugs, but drinking... EVERYONE DRINKS! lol jk but yea I would like if my girl drank at least, but it wouldn't be a deal breaker

[whitewolf]

oh hell no, there's plenty you can do besides those things, if any guy really thought that way theyd just be a waste of your time

[Poptartz]

If That Is How The Boringness Of A Girl Is Judged (besides the drinking) By Those Things Then I Want To Be Boring Because That Is Utterly Rediculos, After I Read This I was WTF!

[sfauo]

Not at all, it just depends on the type of people you hang out with.

[curiouschica]

Hmmm do you really want those guys that find that attractive and do that stuff on a regular basis? Stay classy! =p

[lace1228]

No it shows you have respect for yourself and body.

[Jay_So_Lovely]

I would think that you have a good sense of judgement.

[doctorwhofan23]

No she is girlfriend meterial. She is the girl I want

[Ezmotts]

You're talking to the wrong kind of guys, you have my respect.

[CluelessJoe96]

I think you just haven't found a good guy. There are plenty of guys that don't party, and want that in a girl. A girl who doesn't party is definitely the type of girl I'm interested in.

[sunmonster]

No that's not boring.

[lecavlier]

i like girls like you haha

[NonchalantBro]

a lot of guys will probably think you're boring

[Anonymous]

haha I think so...but I'm boring too :)

[MahJaY]

No.