Why do some women toy with genuinely nice, innocent guys?

[Anonymous]

I have been toyed and played with words many times, I don't have witty comeback.
The comebacks I would want to say are fuck off bitch, or stfu cunt.
Which I think aren't appropriate.
I just wait till I get a dirt on them and just expose them. Like she cheating, exposing there rudeness to everyone so that I can systematically destroy there friendships. (It does destroy mine as well)
I hate those kind of women who does that.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

If you are doing that kind of stuff as revenge for a slight then you are in no way a genuinely nice guy.

Truly nice guys, one, don't need to refer to themselves as such and, two, don't act like an angry child when slighted. You may be nice when it's convenient, but it's all performative and you expect something in return whether it be praise or favors of some sort.

[Nikki1989]

You're a big boy now. Act like it.

[slatyb]

This sounds like a you problem -- either you are consistently choosing such women, or you are misinterpreting their behavior as sexual interest when there is none. Have you considered seeing a professional counselor?

You sound like a mass murder about to happen.

[Chayce]

Stop giving them a reason to toy with you. You're obviously doing something to make them fuck with you. They aren't doing it for no reason.

[Asker]

Sitting silently?

[Chayce]

No woman is looking at some random dude supposedly sitting there silently and deciding to fuck with them unless you are doing something that invites them to do that. What are you even doing in this context to warrant such behaviour.

[Asker]

Nope it's just that, me with my headphones in a corner in a lab.
Minding my own business, just because she knows who is sitting beside me who is apparently my friend and I wanted to show him how I connected to gitlab GPU to my MCP server which are running on my laptop so that I can gett better tokens

[Chayce]

Maybe she likes you. Could be a shit test. Don't get angry back, smile in her face and show that it didn't bother you & remain in a masculine frame.

[Asker]

Ha I just stopped talking to that friend and made some more plugins for some reverse engineering stuff.
They are already in the latest repos.

[Asker]

Nope she won't like someone like me.

Me ugly, who is facing hair loss, my small face with a twig like body.
No chance ( I am malnourished )

[Chayce]

The same way you're serious about engineering it's time to get serious about your looks. Do everything in your power to become handsome. Life rewards you more when you are good looking. Start lifting weights everyday, run a skin care routine, do something about your hair loss. Save it if it's salvageable or consider a transplant. Seriously do everything in your power to become good looking. It's not even funny how much nicer people will treat you.

[Asker]

I already did, tried to get in sharp, broke hip, by a car accident.
Tooth braces for 2 years, had good hair now going bald.
Now I can't even run.
Hip just hurts like hell. Can't be fixed.
Stress about everything in life.
And no where to relax.
I used to play games and movies now it's just a reminder that I don't have any friends. To play with.

[Chayce]

Being good looking isn't just waking up one day and you look good and that's it. It's something you constantly work at. Something you constantly improve. You had braces for two years and then what happened? Did your teeth get fixed? I'm confused here.

Take minoxidill and Finasteride/dutasteride+ biotin and derma stamp for your hair. Look at tressless on reddit. There are plenty of cases of people bringing their hair back. I'm thinning slightly too and this is my plan soon as well.

Regarding your hips do physiotherapy. Do something. Hulk Hogan literally did so many leg drops his height dropped like 4 inches. Stone Cold and Kurt Angle were wrestling with a BROKEN NECK. For years. They took a shitload of painkillers, but your job doesn't require you to be on the road almost everyday throughout the year taking immense levels of damage.

I get it. You're in pain & struggling. Life sucks. But the bitching isn't cool. Don't just lie down and give up so easily. Especially in your mid-late twenties.

[Asker]

Well I did try,
For 6 months I have been wasting money on pills, hair serums,
I have been wasting time, on physiotherapy, oh it didn't work in turn it made it so much worse then it was, now I need to sit down after every 10 minutes.

[Chayce]

OK I can't go back and forth with someone who has a negative mindset regardless of their situation. You are a free man. You aren't in prison for the rest of your life. People that have life sentences with no chance of ever getting out are still alive holding onto quite literally the only thing they have left in life: faith. Do what you will and what you want in this life, but this negative mindset isn't cool, and nobody, man or woman wants to be around someone like that.

[Anonymous]

Did you have a real question or did you just post so you can bitch?

[Anonymous]

You’re no better then

[Asker]

Well publicly destroying my image, hurting my ego.
And why not a revenge?
I do give them chance to apologise but guess what they never take it dear!
They mostly take it as a joke.
So waiting and destroying them from inside.
Done it 1 times.
Also destroyed an arrange marriage telling that she was seeing someone else on the side.
Which was true and he deserves to know too.

[Anonymous]

they’d like to play games