Should you bank or rely on a girl asking you to hang out?

[Anonymous]

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2 mo

Bank on*

[Static_In_The_Attic]

You probably have a better chance of getting hit by lightning on a submarine.

On the other side of things lightning can strike.

In life I always say if you never try you will never know & in life I always say if you like someone you shouldn’t be afraid to let them know.

[Asker]

I have literally seen girls ask guys to hang out

[Static_In_The_Attic]

As I said lightning can strike & girls have asked me to hang out & I have seen it happen to other guys as well. If you like her ask her to hang out first because if you snooze you lose.

[Asker]

I see but shouldn't you wait for her to ask you to hang out because then it shows she actually has interest in you?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

My brother from another mother if a girl asks out a guy I think it’s a wonderful thing & I secretly wish more girls would ask out guys. If you wait for her to ask you out keep in mind you could be waiting a long time. Do you have feelings for her? If you do & she is already in a relationship don’t waste your time.

[Asker]

I don't mean like for her to ask me out on a date. I'm talking about asking to hang out.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Bro just go ask her to hang out. You have a 50/50 shot.

[DragonDan444]

I don’t know what you mean if you mean banking on a girl asking you in the first place or banking on a girl that did ask you.

It’s happened before some guys may read it as a completely friendly thing (in some cases they may be right) sometimes when someone man or woman asks someone on a date especially if they know each other sometimes you have to be pretty clear. But yeah women ask guys to hang out all the time. Maybe if you’re younger hey we need to work on this project together. There’s this new movie we should go and see it. Or maybe just straight up hey what’s your name yada yada.

The issue is if you only wait on someone asking you…. You limit your options. Especially when people expect random people to approach them who are busy and might not even notice you. You have to put yourself out there and signal availability.

[Nikki1989]

Take the initiative yourself. If you want something, you make an effort to go and get it. Simple.

[MartinKlingac]

Yes, if she genuinely wants to spend time with you, I’d take her invitation seriously. Sometimes a simple “let’s hang out” can mean she’s interested and comfortable with you.

[Anonymous]

I think in today's day an age i don't know wht would do otherwise. It's largely pointless and unnecessary for a guy to do the asking.

[Anonymous]

Don't rely on anyone for anything. No one care about you more than you care about yourself.

[FrodoSkywalker007]

I had it happen a few times

[Asker]

I agree. I haven't experienced it but I've seen it.

[Abbycado]

What?

[Asker]

I'm sorry I meant bank on.

[Anonymous]

lol you sound like a girl

[FrodoSkywalker007]

He is a girl
It's a fake blue! 😱

[Asker]

Why would I be a girl?