How often should you ask a girl to hangout?

[Anonymous]

With my schedule, once every two weekends is the best case scenario. Is that often enough, at least in the beginnings of getting know someone?

[enigmatta]

if a guy asked me to hang out once every two weeks, it would mean he wants to get to know me, but just as friends. Like, he doesn't really care about something deeper.

If he's interested in me, once a week. Can't go on for weeks just wondering what he's up to. And if that's your schedule and best case scenario, then probably some girls wouldn't bother investing feelings and excitement in that. Good luck.

[Asker]

well, what if the girl has the same type of schedule as me?

[Asker]

and doesn't once a week seem like a lot for someone you don't know? Maybe I just haven't found a girl I like enough yet.

[enigmatta]

You won't seem desperate at all! I mean, I've gone out "just as friends" two times a week with a guy I barely knew. (There was some interest and attraction). If you like the girl and the girl likes you, then you are eager to see them as soon as you can. If you insist on "once every two weeks" being appropriate, I would STRONGLY suggest you explain why (to the girl). Otherwise, I'm damn sure she'll think you're playing games or not interested that much, in which case, you should state it clearly

[alicesam]

I think once every two weekends is very little. Girls hate it! because it shows that you are acting hot then cold towards her. Maybe every weekend is good. If you wanna say every 2 weekends, then keep in touch with her and text her a bit to show your interest.

[Account]

Once every two weekends is not often enough. It's spaced out.

It's a sign that you're not interested in her romantically but you just enjoy her company as a friend. Once a week is good and it doesn't show that you're desperate.

[Asker]

I don't know...it just feels like if I ask a girl once a week to hang out, it does seem desperate.

[Account]

Hmm that's what you think? Eh I don't think so but, well once every two weekends, you're giving her the sign that you're not interested that much in my opinion

[samme]

I think once a week is not bad as long you don't make her feel she waisted her free time on nothing .

[Anonymous]

It would be also once every 2 weeks for me so that the anticipation and excitement will build up.

[Asker]

that's what I was thinking. Plus you'll have stuff to talk about and you're not sick of each other. Keeps things fresh.

[sockz]

Once a week. Set a regular time and always keep it.

[Asker]

isn't that too predictable?

[Anonymous]

If you're interested in a romantic way, that's pretty spaced out. If it's the best you can do just make sure she knows it's because you're busy and you're actually interested. Also make sure to talk to her a loooot more frequently than than=t.