If she calls me every day, why do I feel like she might bail on dates?

[Brokenheart14]

Been talking to girl for about a month, went on a couple dates she tells me she enjoys talking to me and hanging out but isn’t ready for anything. She continuously calls me everyday, we have spoke for 6 hours once. Last night I was like hey let’s go out she said okay at first but was like what about tomorrow it was kinda late and weather was sucky. I asked her to confirm today and she said yes again and deal when I told her a time I’d get her I joked and said she can’t bail now and she laughed and was like hahah why. I’m so confused. She’ll call me 4-5 times a day. I don’t want to pressure her and not begging her to be my girlfriend I’m just asking to hang out? What should I do. I’m nervous she may avoid me today or bail.

[SecretsofKB]

I remember you from a few days ago. It sounds like you have some insecurities here. My suggestion is to find a way to work through those insecurities or you’re going to self-sabotage this good relationship you’re starting here.

[Brokenheart14]

Ya I won’t lie a little. I was with a girl I thought I was going to spend my life with. She left and now I feel super guarded and all this kinda feels too good to be true and I feel in the end I’ll just get hurt so I’m coming here to ask my questions so I don’t sabotage

[Brokenheart14]

What do you call it when, she blows your phone up when you stop replying but is weird with hanging out lately, she agreed to 3 times but now all sudden it’s weird but she’ll call me 75 times a day send reels and text

[Anonymous]

Well you just said in another post she would, so why is it a mystery to you?