I’ve had a thing for this girl for sometime. She recently split a/ her dude and I was finally able to take her out. I am somewhat friends with this guy but he treated her crappy throughout the 8 months they were together. She says she wants to get to know me better and take things slow being she just went through a breakup. I get that. But her actions towards me seem odd. Any clarity or help would be greatly appreciated. I can’t ask anyone in my circle because we’re all friends with her ex. So anyway, here’s the story in a nutshell... We went out on a date 2 weeks ago. Had a great time. Canoeing and a Brad Paisley concert, she stayed the night, no sex - did get a few kisses which was cool but overall a great night. Dropped off some lunch to her Friday and she surprised me by laying 2 kisses on me while I was sitting in the car. However even though we’ve stayed in contact and talk everyday, we see each other through mutual friends but it’s always a casual hey’ here’s a hug and go different directions. I’m sure none of her friends (all mutual friends w/ me and her ex) don’t know anything about us. Recently saw her at the lake this weekend, even though I was looking for her I wasn’t on a mission to find her. Then all of sudden in a sea of rafts she swims up to my tube. We hang out a little, then she leaves on a boat w/o even looking back once. I’m so confused. Any advice? Why won’t she hang out more? Why’s she text me everyday and ask how my day is w/o replying to the last text she left on read? I’m so confused by this. Is she just testing the waters and wanting to take things super slow with me? Is she actually interested? I’m 39 w/ a teenager and she’s 30 if this helps. Just trying to figure out if I should just give up all together or if this is something worth sticking out to see where it goes.