Why do so many women find stoic, low-energy guys sexier than playful men?

[SieghardWalsung]

By "stoic," I don't mean the typical manosphere-adjacent "be a controlled monster" kind of "stoic."

But most of the guys who are sought after by women tend to be very chill, dull and immovable to the point where.. to guys like me.. and honestly looks really fake and cringy.

Like they're pretending to be an anime character or someshit I don't know.

My baseline behavior on the other hand is extremely high energy, playful, loose and animated. For some reason this tends to register to women as "unsafe" and thus "unsexy."

What's wrong with guys like me?

"There's nothing WRONG wi-"

Stop. If the behavior isn't getting me the results I want.. then there's something wrong with it. That's how I approach these things.

I'm asking why women find zero personality (or what looks like zero personality compared to myself) in a guy significantly sexier than a guy who's.. like.. an actual person lol.

[LazerBean]

I don't doubt that women don't find you attractive, however your perception of why they don't find you attractive is simply wrong. Plenty of playful, funny men are attracting women. Whatever you have going on that is making you want attractive, it's not that.

[SieghardWalsung]

"I don't doubt that women don't find you attractive"

Oh?
Do tell.. 🙃

[LazerBean]

Tell what lol

[SieghardWalsung]

Why you don't doubt that women don't find me attractive 😭

[LazerBean]

Oh, sorry lol

well you yourself said that you're struggling to attract women so I'm sure there is a truth to that is all.

[SieghardWalsung]

Riveting

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

Omg give me the one that's playful. I am dead serious. I am very playful myself and I need someone who can keep up with me and make me laugh. Someone who likes bad jokes and puns especially work for me. Someone who likes playing video games with me is a sure fire winner in my book.

In the end all that matters to me is that he truly loves me, is genuinely himself, not afraid to be silly, is good with kids, and is thoughtful. Hopefully that isn't a challenging list for someone.

[Nikki1989]

Playful men are the best. I don't know any women going for the other kind you describe here.

[Kvass]

Personally I can’t stand those talking corpses. Playful guys all the way

[Nicoula]

The energy is very calming and grounding with the stoic masculine energy.

[Anonymous]

I don’t like robots