How do I cope with the pain and anxiety of unrequited love and loneliness?

[Anonymous]

I was in love with my flatmate and she just left to go back to her country.
We didn't talk for 3 months , not even today.
I feel that I wish I could grab her and not let her leave.
But sadly I can't do that to her.
We had a fight about 3 months ago.
After that I tried to talk but she just ignored me. So I waited.
Maybe it would solve itself. But it didn't.
Now I am feeling all alone and had an anxiety attack.
The love I had for her has been unanswered..
And I didn't get the last conversation.
I wished she loved me.
But you can't force anyone to fall in love. I will move on.
Love hasn't been kind to me. I feel I am a failure.
I like it myself dying inside today.

[OneViewpoint]

Dude, grow up. Move on. It didn't go your way.

Sounds like you fucked up. Argument. Not talking. She gone.

Live and learn. Your actions and words have consequences. We've all been there.

Or... all she ever wanted was someone to split the rent and your clueless ass tried to force your feelings onto a roommate. All she could do was leave. How did you think it was gonna end? I'm guessing you have little to no experience with women.

[Asker]

Oh no itis a student apartment

[Xdressertiff]

If she truly loves you back yous will find a way. However if its a onesided love affair then it's not going to happen. I deal with anxiety and when girls dump me by crossdressing as it turns me into a different person.

[Nikki1989]

Be strong and man enough to get over it and move on.

Put your big boy pants on.

[WhitneySnow]

Try reaching out to her

Why did you fight?

[Anonymous]

Too bad there are only 4 billion other girls in the world.

[jahaims]

By being mature enough to not develop feelings for someone who isn't interested

[Anonymous]

Move on and try again