A stare of how many seconds is a decent stare?

[Anonymous]

Is there a decent way to stare at girls without seeming creepy ?

Usually I stare at girls that I find attractive. Some girls look away, some return back my stare and some give me the look of WTF are you looking at ?

I tried my best to stop staring at girls but when I do, I get frustrated throughout the day with no apparent reason o_O

Also, is it wrong to stare at girls ?

[justagirl42]

there's looking and then there's staring and then there's leering.

looking is a brief glance over to check her out2/3 seconds tops.

staring is when you look for a about 5/6 seconds to really see and also have time to check out her personality.

leering is when you stare for so long that you find other people noticing you watching her or she herself feels you watching her and seems uncomfortable with it which I'm gonna say is over 8 seconds long you're getting into leering territory and that's creepy it doesn't matter if you're smiling or licking your lips it's weird.

so give yourself a standard time limit between a glance and a stare and that'll help keep you out of creeper weirdo territory.

[KrystalMeth]

how do I put this nicely...if your old then it's way creepy lol!

if a guy stares and you look at him and he still in trance then that can be off putting.

if he stops and smiles then, its all right, that's fine :)

[Kladdpapper]

It's not wrong to stare X'D Creepy, maybe; it depends on how you stare, but if she don't seem to like it you should respect it :)

[Liger]

Staring at girls is fun trust me, but be sure to give attention to worthy ones only, usually you should stare until she moves he eyes first...maintaining eye contact with a beauty can be tough at times but it's like a muscle with training you will start having no problem with that, for now stare until she breaks the eye contact. It's OK to be a man, If a man sees something he likes, he will take time to look at it and give it some attention. It's like that. After that follows the smiling, smile at her, if she smiles back...then GAME ON! you're there dude.

[rockingpianoman]

I stare and when we make eye contact I smile a little and then most of the times the lady turns away her head ( maybe I'm butt ugly or she is shy :p) sometimes I do a stare battle because it's creepy funny :D

I love looking at girls , I don't think girls are annoyed by it unless you're 40 and she is 18 lol