Girlfriend and her co-worker...Suspicion

[Anonymous]

So let me preface this by saying I met my girlfriend two years ago at work while she had a boyfriend. She cheated on him with me and a few months later broke up with him after 7 years to be with me.

I know my girlfriend loves me with all her heart. But...I will always be looking for any signs because I know that her last boyfriend never suspected anything.

We don't work together anymore nor does she work at same place. Now there is this coworker who she tells me she gets along with.

There haven't been that many signs that suggest something is going ton but I just want to know if I am being paranoid.

1. He broke up with his girlfriend and he texted her about it. Out of nowhere. (Who does that?!)

2. He texted her this morning, "Wake up" (Who does that?!)

3. She likes Hello Kitty and every time he sees something related to Hello Kitty, he sends her a picture of the item. (!)

Anyway,...is this just me?

I don't think I will ever be able to be comfortable with any of her coworkers, ever, because of how I met her.

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I tell her he wants to F*** HER but she says he is just a coworker. I doubt she actually believes that.

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Here's the BIG problem. They work in a small room, given the nature of their work, so they are alone. Obviously not all the time because there are other workers but there are times when it is just them two.

[minas]

I am sorry to tell you that the girl who cheated with you on a guy will do the same to you... and there is a proverb which says the cook of the poison must taste it ... and this what happened to you. in my point of you ... your relationship is not healthy you have got to get it on the right track if you wana continue... it is tough to live on suspicion and on doubt every single minute. t

[Anonymous]

A leopard never changes its spots,other words once a cheater always a cheater and no doubt she will cheat on you just like she did to the other, I mean it was a 7 year relationship, sorry, but you're a silly man.

[Asker]

so as much as I know she loves me...she will cheat again?

[Opinion Owner]

She cheated on the other guy she loved.

[Anonymous]

It's clear that HE likes HER, but I can't say whether she feels the same. Is your girlfriend the type that won't turn down any attention? If so, that would explain why she doesn't tell him to back off.

[Asker]

There was this guy at our old work who she spoke with on the phone at night and he liked her. But nothing happened. He even told me that he tried kissing her but she backed away. From what she tells me she just wanted attention from him.

[Opinion Owner]

Likely that's what she enjoys with this guy as well. Will she actually cheat? Who knows. It's worrisome though that this is a pattern and of course how your relationship started doesn't help. I would've told you long ago not to get into anything serious with this girl for precisely this reason but it's too late now. I'm still worried about how much this is eating you up even if she's being faithful. All I can suggest is you talk to her about your concern but I doubt that would change her at all.