My girlfriend is being sneaky

[lukey]

hi I am 27 and my girlfriend is 46 I been seeing her6 month and I cheated bt got a second chance witch I am thankful for as I love her to bit but nowi keep finding thing out about e and won't give me a straight answer like I find my mate had text her when broke up and she won't ake him off her phone even tho he ha a g and seeing her mate nd this worrys me as she said she didn't trust him so why keep him on her phone I love her to bits but can't take this so please hepl me as I feel a mess

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+1 y

sorry about spellin was half a sleep as not had any in days over this every day like a rola coaster up and down

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+1 y

i think might have run it course it sad as have fallen really hard for her ad I don't really want kids

[Belgie]

Here's the thing.

You're the cheater.

Cheaters often find themselves in a state of paranoia about their partners. Either the guilt, or the deep seated belief that no one can be faithful, or the fear that she'll cheat as a form of revenge.

In practice, it almost never happens. But I'd be lying if I said that the partners of a cheater don't sometimes enjoy watching them squirm.

All you can do is tell her how you feel, tell her that your infidelity has made you insecure about the relationship, and ask her to help you get through it.

She might not. She might think a couple of sleepless nights are no less than you deserve.

[Carping]

You should learn how to write and type. The spell check is for free on this site

[Ashley8282]

If you can claim that a woman is worthless if she can't produce children than I can give my advice the way I did.

He cheated, there was broken trust before he cheated, and there is broken trust after he cheated on both sides. He cheated she is being sneaky. Its not looking good and is going to be a long road of recovery, which doesn't look good. That's my advice.

[Ashley8282]

You cheated what do you expect.

[MOZZY10]

Hey show some petty, he's looking for advise . . .

She's 46, can't have children soon . . . A woman is worthless if she can't produce sons and daughters, so I don't blame you . . . If you really want her, then tell her that, A woman loves nothing more than A man to go down on his knees . . . She's quite mature though and therefore wise, Any man she gets at her age whether it be you or anyone is considered a victory . . .

[Anonymous]

Ashton, Ashton, Ashton...

[maxxi]

lol

[Anonymous]

Hooked on phonics worked for me!