There are so many disturbing facts and red flags in your account that you should have severed this relation a long time ago.
There are plenty of inconsistencies in her behavior that it seems obvious that she is not "clean" and that she is hiding something. She may not be cheating but she is not straight and honest and that, to me, is equivalent to emotional abuse and cheating.
It is time you wake up and take the only reasonable solution that is left to you and that is to sever this toxic relation as quickly as possible.
Her behavior does not speak in her favor and you should have realized that a long time ago AND acted upon.
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I think he definitely wants her and she’s leading him on a little. Whether anything actually happened…maybe.
If you want your sanity buddy, you have no choice but to leave her. If she asks why? Tell her she doesn't deserve a reason.
The quicker you get away from her, the quicker you can start to find someone that actually WANTS to be with you. She unfortunately doesn't! You are just someone she tolerates when it suits her, she has no respect for you or the relationship you have with her.
I would not live like that, life is too damn short to waste it.
I didn't even get past the third line. You're getting cucked and for her you're just the loser beta bucks while she's doing some alpha fucked with her "guy friend" or any other "guy friend" she meets. If you have any self respect (which it seems you have not) you will dumpah now and dumpah fast.
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Sounds like a big problem that’s why I don’t allow my girlfriends to have any male friends because I don’t trust anybody I’ve heard too many stories
I doubt it
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