What is flirting? Not the definition but examples!!

[kartoos]

I really don't know how to flirt maybe I do but I don't know if I'm flirting or not!:s:D

[bobair]

Flirting is about SUBTEXT. It's not about WHAT you're saying... it's about what you're NOT saying.

It's not about the actual words you're using... it's WHY you're saying what you're saying.

For example, teasing a girl about how huge her purse is, but then complimenting her on how cute her shoes are. The teasing sub-communicates that you don't like her taste in fashion... BUT complimenting her on her shoes also sub-communicates that you DO like her taste in fashion.

It's called "push and pull" and it's a fun way to amp up attraction.

Also, almost all compliments can be a form of flirting. Like, "Hey, you have beautiful eyes!" which you might follow with, "especially the left one."

Or being sarcastic can be a type of flirting... "Wow, you're so short, I just want to put you in my pocket and take you home with me!"

Basically any type of playful banter is considered flirting.

Like I said, its your intention that defines the vibe of what you're saying. If your "vibe" is playful and fun and possibly sexual, then you can safely call it flirting. If you're grumpy or super serious then it's not flirting.

If you meet a chick and you find her SUPER hot and cute then your tone of voice can change almost anything into flirting. Like saying "Hi there, it's nice to meet you!" with a smile and grin can be flirting if your eyes and face say "wow you're so cute!" If you said that same thing without smiling you might be considered creepy.

Hope this helps?

~ Robby

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[woohoo_friday]

I know it helped me!

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