Why do girls act mysterious ?

Question

most of the girls I met were being so damn mysterious , why is that ?

well I wana say it doesn't attract me at all

I mean being more open and natural will make it easy for a guy to take the first step

what do you think girls ?

Twincapersred · Accepted Answer

It's out of fear, they don't want to out and out say what they are thinking fir fear of rejection or worse being made fun of.

Most of my friends an I are "anti-girls" where in most of our closest friends are guys, so we are used to saying exactly what we think. If you're close friends with guys over time you realize saying what you think is rarely met with concrete disapproval.

Or it could be a way to keep the power in the relationship, a lot of women feel the need to show that they are strong and independent and go about showing it the wrong way. But a relationship shouldn't be about who has the power or who is more in control.

But guys also aren't generally as observant as women. We break down everything you do and say to try and figureout your meaning, where as most guys take things at face value. We think by inviting you to our birthday if we haven't known you long that that is screaming in your face I like you ask me out! But you might think it's just a birthday invite- she wants as many folk to turn up and make it a great party.

However all that being said- guys are similar rarely does a man comeout and say, I like you, let's go out.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sometimes its because we don't think they guy likes us back, so we try to somehow "build" his feelings for us without driving him away.

Sometimes, girls aren't mysterious at all and guys just grasp at straws for clues that his crush has feelings for him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Most girls don't think they act mysterious at all.

As far as they are concerned, their intentions are clear and obvious. They sit around wondering why guys don't understand them, or don't realize that the girl wants him to ask her out, or whatever.

Basically, it's a communication problem. Guys don't understand girls signals. Girls think guys are as observant of signals as they are.

If you work really hard at it, you can learn to read the signals that girls give off. It takes time and effort, but it'll make things a lot less mysterious for you in the future. Your male friends will think you're a mind-reader.